Some time ago, snow art gave me a micro letter said: "Come out to sit, I have a big good news to tell you."
good news? Is it going to get married?
I and so on for a long time, and finally see his male vote carefully with the ancestors like to help her come in. I looked at her at least 5 months of his belly, said: "Congratulations! Finally willing to get married?
She looked happily touched the stomach, pretend to cover his face and said: "This is not forced to no way Well.
"Everything is for your son Well, you will not even work to quit, right?" I took the wedding invitation, jokingly.
"Yes, I have decided, when a full - time housewife, husband and wife, husband singing with.
01
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It was not long before the snow gave birth to a son.
That day, I was ready to go out, but received her grievances of monstrous telephone. I can not help but wonder: "little grandmother, see friends circle your day is not a very good thing?
"I regret, I do not want to be a full - time wife.
"What's the matter?"
"This man is married before marriage is two different things. Playing small ancestors were born, all things have changed.I am busy from late to late, both to laundry, cooking, dragging to sweep ... ... but also wait on the small ancestors. Was half dead, he fell well, came back to the sofa on a lying, just like dead bodies like, the children crying wow wow not only no matter, but also noisy ... ... "
"Maybe you are too tired to work, you understand the chant." I said.
He is tired of I do not tired? He simply do not know how hard a woman at home full of hard.He paid with me than what? I pregnant in October, experienced a pregnant, experienced the operating table of life and death test, milk……"
"Snow art, calm down ... ..." I would like to wake her, but I did not, she needs a vent channel.
02
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In fact, more than snow art, I have heard a lot of women complain - after marriage, her husband pay less and less.
Most men are very helpless, obviously they did not change, but still be nagging every day! But many men do not know that your change is precisely the problem is where, because she changed:
First, the role of marriage changes.
Before marriage, they are mostly small family at home, as long as the beautiful flowers to feed themselves on the line, as to love, but also in the arms; but after marriage, for the mother just, they instantly from an official into a separate Wife, a child mother.
They have to enter a new family environment, but also like the past to work, but also learn to exercise housework, take care of children. From the care of the child into a child to take care of the child, life is also 180 degrees so. She's paid for the growth of geometric levels.
But the men in their eyes are still busy working every day as before (and most of the time there is no change in income). Hatchback comparison, they naturally feel that they pay more, and men less.
Although many male compatriots may be wronged, I am also very tired ah. But in fact you can not blame her, because on the one hand the man's efforts and pay mainly reflected in the work, but all this basically occurred in the company, women can not see; the other hand, the character of men also tend to Tolerance And bear, so most men do not shout tired to a woman
In fact, couples in one, both sides want to be harmonious, need both understanding and consensus. As a wife should understand the social role of men is not easy; as a husband, should understand and affirm their sacrifice and pay for the family, and strive to change their role, more understanding of his wife. Only Thanksgiving, can all the way counterparts, storms.
Second, sensibility to rational change.
Women are born willing to pay, and they are often less worthy of gains and losses. In their minds, love is not a sale, do not have every minute is considered clear. Feelings should be cherished, I love him, I would like to pay for him.
But we also know that no one is willing to pay, so when they get married to pay to a certain extent, they do not get any return or attention, she will stop to think: I continue to pay worth it? Do I have to pay for it all the time? Therefore, they look back at their own way to pay, and then compare the status of her husband now, naturally feel that they pay more.
Third, the pursuit of fairness.
In fact, this little Xiaobian feel less need to explain, you only need to ask yourself, as a man of you, is not also feel that they are very hard, work every day to the people nodded, pay a lot to barely maintain the status quo, and women do? Every day to control the operation of the home, you may buy two or two pieces of clothing, a few pieces of skin care products, it took out a large sum, you are not also feel unfair?
So the male friends, when the women began to complain, do not blindly expressed disgust, at the appropriate time, you should also pay for his wife to express or support, but also try to let her know your hard, mutual understanding is King
03
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So, how can you improve the way you get along with sex, for example, you can:
1. help little things. Try not to go home to Ge You lying, but with his wife to cook, to help her fight to start, or get off work on the way to buy a piece of her favorite little cake. Women are very attention to detail, you help me in these trivial little things, to reduce her burden, so she felt your love for her, she will not only complain will be reduced, will in turn understand you.
2. Before going to bed communication. Xiaobian understand everyone is usually very busy, no time to communicate, but long-term communication is certainly a problem, so it is better to take 10-20 minutes before going to bed chat, both sides talk about the day encountered interesting things to discuss Some of their own ideas. More communication, so that each other can feel the love.
3. love ritual sense. In fact, many women feel that they pay much more after marriage, mainly feel that men no longer pay attention to their own, this is because the marriage before marriage compared to the love of the ceremony less a lot, so try every time or anniversary, to Wife to bring a gift or go out to eat a meal.
good news? Is it going to get married?
I and so on for a long time, and finally see his male vote carefully with the ancestors like to help her come in. I looked at her at least 5 months of his belly, said: "Congratulations! Finally willing to get married?
She looked happily touched the stomach, pretend to cover his face and said: "This is not forced to no way Well.
"Everything is for your son Well, you will not even work to quit, right?" I took the wedding invitation, jokingly.
"Yes, I have decided, when a full - time housewife, husband and wife, husband singing with.
01
/
It was not long before the snow gave birth to a son.
That day, I was ready to go out, but received her grievances of monstrous telephone. I can not help but wonder: "little grandmother, see friends circle your day is not a very good thing?
"I regret, I do not want to be a full - time wife.
"What's the matter?"
"This man is married before marriage is two different things. Playing small ancestors were born, all things have changed.I am busy from late to late, both to laundry, cooking, dragging to sweep ... ... but also wait on the small ancestors. Was half dead, he fell well, came back to the sofa on a lying, just like dead bodies like, the children crying wow wow not only no matter, but also noisy ... ... "
"Maybe you are too tired to work, you understand the chant." I said.
He is tired of I do not tired? He simply do not know how hard a woman at home full of hard.He paid with me than what? I pregnant in October, experienced a pregnant, experienced the operating table of life and death test, milk……"
"Snow art, calm down ... ..." I would like to wake her, but I did not, she needs a vent channel.
02
/
In fact, more than snow art, I have heard a lot of women complain - after marriage, her husband pay less and less.
Most men are very helpless, obviously they did not change, but still be nagging every day! But many men do not know that your change is precisely the problem is where, because she changed:
First, the role of marriage changes.
Before marriage, they are mostly small family at home, as long as the beautiful flowers to feed themselves on the line, as to love, but also in the arms; but after marriage, for the mother just, they instantly from an official into a separate Wife, a child mother.
They have to enter a new family environment, but also like the past to work, but also learn to exercise housework, take care of children. From the care of the child into a child to take care of the child, life is also 180 degrees so. She's paid for the growth of geometric levels.
But the men in their eyes are still busy working every day as before (and most of the time there is no change in income). Hatchback comparison, they naturally feel that they pay more, and men less.
Although many male compatriots may be wronged, I am also very tired ah. But in fact you can not blame her, because on the one hand the man's efforts and pay mainly reflected in the work, but all this basically occurred in the company, women can not see; the other hand, the character of men also tend to Tolerance And bear, so most men do not shout tired to a woman
In fact, couples in one, both sides want to be harmonious, need both understanding and consensus. As a wife should understand the social role of men is not easy; as a husband, should understand and affirm their sacrifice and pay for the family, and strive to change their role, more understanding of his wife. Only Thanksgiving, can all the way counterparts, storms.
Women are born willing to pay, and they are often less worthy of gains and losses. In their minds, love is not a sale, do not have every minute is considered clear. Feelings should be cherished, I love him, I would like to pay for him.
But we also know that no one is willing to pay, so when they get married to pay to a certain extent, they do not get any return or attention, she will stop to think: I continue to pay worth it? Do I have to pay for it all the time? Therefore, they look back at their own way to pay, and then compare the status of her husband now, naturally feel that they pay more.
Third, the pursuit of fairness.
In fact, this little Xiaobian feel less need to explain, you only need to ask yourself, as a man of you, is not also feel that they are very hard, work every day to the people nodded, pay a lot to barely maintain the status quo, and women do? Every day to control the operation of the home, you may buy two or two pieces of clothing, a few pieces of skin care products, it took out a large sum, you are not also feel unfair?
So the male friends, when the women began to complain, do not blindly expressed disgust, at the appropriate time, you should also pay for his wife to express or support, but also try to let her know your hard, mutual understanding is King
03
/
So, how can you improve the way you get along with sex, for example, you can:
1. help little things. Try not to go home to Ge You lying, but with his wife to cook, to help her fight to start, or get off work on the way to buy a piece of her favorite little cake. Women are very attention to detail, you help me in these trivial little things, to reduce her burden, so she felt your love for her, she will not only complain will be reduced, will in turn understand you.
2. Before going to bed communication. Xiaobian understand everyone is usually very busy, no time to communicate, but long-term communication is certainly a problem, so it is better to take 10-20 minutes before going to bed chat, both sides talk about the day encountered interesting things to discuss Some of their own ideas. More communication, so that each other can feel the love.
3. love ritual sense. In fact, many women feel that they pay much more after marriage, mainly feel that men no longer pay attention to their own, this is because the marriage before marriage compared to the love of the ceremony less a lot, so try every time or anniversary, to Wife to bring a gift or go out to eat a meal.
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