Friday, January 6, 2017

From strangers to lay naked in my arms, I just do these things..

Why a lot of people send WeChat messages on the phone, or looking for a woman to chat, will be indifferent response or even don't answer?

The main reason is that don't know to chat with the girls skills, women feel "fun" and you chat, but feel this is harassment.

Chat with the girls direction, is usually divided into three levels:

1. The event

When we first meet with people, each other is not familiar with, our conversation at the beginning of the point usually is a thing or something. With the recent popularity of network events, the latest popular movie, dialogue. We will contact with each other, usually is to find the interesting, entertainment point tell each other.

This event, let both sides have dialogue!

  

2. Personal

After the communication between the two sides reached a certain degree (usually is produced after the trust), the direction of the chat will transfer from event oriented to people oriented dialogue. Which means both interested in each other and love each other, so will start talking about the other side of the topic.

The best example of this is when a woman said to you: what's your name? Represent your dialogue, already entered the personal basic information.

Birthday, constellation, work, and so on personal information are in this kind of topic.

3. The ambiguous

The purpose of your chat is to find a girlfriend, ambiguity is the essential, ambiguous, you know you have to meet before she can be ambiguous, so is the purpose of your chat, higher ambiguous relationship invitation at the same time. Ambiguity is the topic of that make each other feel you like her "may" words. When a girl began to say: I feel you are very good, I think when your girlfriend must be very happy, such as words, it means you have entered the ambiguous orientation, the topic of conversation.

Make a phone call to send WeChat messages, beginning with events

Make a phone call will be women hate, is because there is no follows the slowly heating way.

 

As I just examples

If you and the other side of the familiar with degree is not enough, when you ask "what are you doing?" , the other party will feel puzzling, but also for your trust will be reduced (think: do you have any attempt to, how suddenly asked me to do).

So if you want to call a friend who just met or not cooked, I suggest you use the event as the beginning.



A good way is to use share of mind, to chat with each other.

For example, I may call each other in the past then said:

"Hello, can you talking on the phone? I told you that I see a funny things. Today I saw a girl in the subway today say men with another girl, insecure, say what, is probably on the network to know a man, as soon as they met...."

Then after finished I'll ask: do you have any similar experience?

From her conversation again to seek a topic to talk.

From the event to the individual

In the workplace, we all have the opportunity to encounter something we want to know the mm, but sometimes just feel how chat between the two sides are "business is business," without further progress...

Can have such feeling, it is the dialogue between the two sides are staying in the event of stage, and no further personal communication.

But there are a lot of people, in order to want to know more about each other, usually like each other, they want too fast into the individual oriented dialogue. For example, began to ask each other's work, birthday, have a boyfriend, and so on personal problems, as a result, each other feel abrupt, is difficult to produce for you.

So before from the event to personal, I would suggest that you must make them interested

 

Chat with the girls skills is interested in event, the secret of and into personal guidance

By phone, for example, when you and your partner share an event to the event in interesting ways packaged become the story, and then tell each other when your story to attract each other, each other are likely to ask you, this is a good sign, it says there is "interest" to you.

And that is a good time to you up to the individual guidance. Usually the woman laugh, questions, or would like to put the topic, is that you can turn to the timing of the personal guidance.

Then you can start to ask more personal questions, such as the events in the subway, if she said she also experience in such a rush, you can ask: you should also is toward the 9 to 5 job. Or ask: where do you live? Have need so hurry?

Ask these just talked at this moment, most women naturally will answer. When you discover that you and your partner have started in the exchange of personal information, you have successfully arrived at individual stages.

Events and personal topics used interchangeably

But into the personal guidance later don't think that will be able to start crazy ask personal questions, that will destroy the affection between the dialogue you (because you'll feel like you were taking something).

I usually like to ask questions, or ask before you say a personal experience or story, such not only can let each other know more about me, and will therefore increase her trust to you, so are more willing to and I talk more about personal topics (the first share, will be more willing to share each other's principles have been confirmed by psychology, such behavior will increase of trust between the two sides).

So in such a cycle of the conversation, I can deepen my relationship with each other slowly.

WeChat whether in QQ, you and your sister have got on to a certain degree, you can already flirting with sister easily high ambiguity, this time you have to remind myself that let his sister impression by the original humor humor and wit, have kissed the blarney stone to be slowly connotation, on direction transformation, as long as you success, so with respect to OK.

If you are new to the above said love to do, be familiar with this kind of dialogue mode, even if will have the help to you in other social situations.

"To do a good job, must first sharpen his."

 

1, why near WeChat greet people no one response.

First, you look at your location by traffic (someone flow, rather than a fixed). Live in the bustling downtown, more people, stream. Is you don't actively, also some people say "hello" with you. If you live in the mountains, or a remote small town. You are playing a 100 and no one call back. Or is a familiar one. More brush, there is no novelty. Near other people we really don't suggest you use at present. Not wechat business, feng is kind of women. Or on the company, Momo, sound out to do some work.

Second, your circle of friends head construction. The head of a very handsome, you can let your reply say "hello" more often than not the mainstream image better frequency response. All men are like beautiful things. Not like ugly. But this investment, a lot of people don't want to pay. Don't self-righteous and more. Oneself think good, think very handsome, this is the original. In fact, very sharp. Feel self-abased, always not confident in front of his sister, like the object is shy, dare not to take the initiative to do, afraid of refused to? Stewards love to teach you how to change the humble attitude, let oneself off single.

2, why do not chat.

First, there is a saying of good "looks like you decided she and won't play with you, how long will she play with you the quality of your decision." In WeChat, your circle of friends, decided how long do you play with her a must exist. There are a lot of brothers, still wouldn't have seen a lot of guidance. It is because they never summary, also didn't really learn. Think about this a couple of reasons!

(1) pictures of your circle of friends, most through PS processing, make the picture becomes delicate? Don't say finish, it is not you. Fan bingbing so beautiful photos still need to deal with.

(2) third-party links to your circle of friends, and your life is directly related to it. If not, please delete. A woman is not in your circle of friends look at your chicken soup, thank them is to find the other half, let your life more wonderful.

(3) the picture of your circle of friends ground? What is a very, is your life. No one born to be god, nor is days. Something to the simplest beer and skittles. But ordinary beer and skittles is also a need to beauty. It is need to modify your background.
 
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Second, talent is plain the mediocre prick silk.

You were born to remember now is to live for yourself. Know to their investment, give yourself to one to two pieces of clothes, do you want to know what these are on your own is not our body. The younger sister? We can't put the rest of my life!

Third, the basic social rules.

A core is "self-centered", adhere to the principle of respect for women. Combined with humorous entertainment for the rhythm of the feature. A lot of practice principle behind here, too. Our article tell you ideas, we of course tell you why say that. Come up with fun, suppressed. Many girls will think this person is very strange, but more often, girls will think this person grandstanding. This time the result, don't act, the in the mind be nasty. Began to chase, pursuit has emerged a demand.

Demand feeling, is a kind of oppressive feeling, not comfort. The exchange of goodwill and not friendly, polite. After this is why some children with these bad reason, because they don't know do right things at the right time.

Metaphor, you go to see a hot girl, you went up and down, didn't look at the eyes, in a flurry of say, little affectations constantly. Your hairstyle as it had been carefully managed. There is a kind of, you smile and she said, your hair is quite match your clothes, appear have temperament. Do you think which kind of, there is a demand, which has no demand. And sister get along very well, but each time to the profession has been refused, don't know what went wrong? Do tell you, there is a skill, don't know how to do right? Another article on our platform.
 
Fourth, self-esteem, self-love chat attitude.

Have words called "reactive don't treat" to praise others don't. As you walk in the street. Suddenly, someone give you a cell phone you dare to? You will have a lot of question marks in your head. And, of course, there is a kind of special existence, you is very need to make a phone call, and the man said to you also don't money for free. When you're ninety-nine percent meeting. The girl is also haven't be praise. You will praise her, she must be happy. There are words "pay shallow deep" started to care about her, love her, duty to her. Others want to, you his mama is who ah. Old niang also to teach you how to behave. So, we have to do is to confirm the existence of strangeness. Strangers will have differences. But split, and many more are seeking common ground while putting aside differences, form a win-win situation. When a girl give you waste test, give you don't obey, give you a hard time, you will know how to do it.

"Rome is not built in a day."

In the process of learning in love. Appearance construction, is the easiest way to ascend. In just a few days or months. You can become a pseudo Grosvenor LTD handsome. You have no money to buy clothes, you can go to taobao. You won't dress up you can go to please the teacher teach you.

Love technology, but also easy to learn. Who says you don't know, ridicule, cold read, push-pull, proud charming, and these skills in your chat as usual a ornament. Crackdown, from beginning to end from the beginning to the end of cold read, from beginning to end of push and pull. Neuropathy is believed to be his mother. (do not believe, you try)

Love is the hardest to ascend. In fact you and girls WeChat chat content are not always. It is important to her like you or like you to which stage. Said written a bit, this is to determine the distance of the heart and heart. Of course, many brothers, would say this is too empty. Then we came to a little ground. We have a WeChat template to share to everyone.
 
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(1) did you get her number. You will soon can't wait to see pictures of her head or circle of friends, but seldom goes to the text. So all you need is to speak with pictures.

The first sentence:

1 head to her, or name or personal signature.

An additional: you comment on the two state in her circle of friends. Front (maybe she didn't respond to you, but because of your reply.)

(2) if she respond to you. You can continue to the next step.

The second sentence: I found your circle of friends and is not the same as what I imagined. (it is a curious, she will ask)

Then, our circle of friends cold reading.

If there are a lot of self-portraits her circle of friends, you can say: ah, I found that you are a red character of a person, such a bright and cheerful disposition, enthusiasm.

If her circle of friends have a lot of party, or organization a lot of games. That can say: ah, I return a yellow character are you now, people like the atmosphere, many friends.

If her circle of friends have a lot of inspiration, music, you can say: ah, I found that you are a blue character of a person, such people inside collect, some frowsty coquettish.

If her circle of friends have a lot about the life of cooking, or child, the old man, you can say: ah, I found that you are a green character of a person, you are a pacifist, really want to be a wife and mother.
 
Accident: if she WeChat closed circle of friends.
You said your WeChat friends how to shut down. (just ask)
She said: we are not familiar, or I didn't open to friends. (you)
You said, because not familiar, so we needed a circle of friends. Realize the sincere friend. (confirmed the existence of unripe, sincerely express your request, this is called the man's framework and attitude.)

Her response, a lot of reply: yeah, well, or ha ha. Etc., (don't care what's her reply, you can open a new constellation topic.)

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(3) constellation topic

The third sentence:

If you guess she is red character, you can say that you are a Leo.
If you guessed she was yellow character, you can say, you are a libra.
If you guessed she was blue character, you can say, you are a Capricorn, the CN tower.
If you guessed she was green character, you can say, you are a Gemini.

Of course, I said these constellations, whether it is right, this is not important. But to draw out a small joke.
She said, is not I, I am other signs.
You say: well, I have the wrong again. I also had this smelly. Cry (curiosity guide questions)
She said: what rotten.
Said you work busy dizzy bai too hardworking, until someone ask me when I say constellation socket
 
(4) cooking topic

Why use to cook? Can low cost directly call her to the door and entered the illicit close space. Cook also spend less. Of course there are other more cow force method is in our class.

The fourth sentence: can you open a conversation according to her circle of friends.

You say: all say to retain a man's heart, to keep his stomach. You can cook?
This will be, "she said.
You say: wow, that I must take you home, my grandmother the jade bracelets, will send you a family heirloom teach you Fried sweet and sour pork ribs.

She said: why is sweet and sour pork ribs, or the other. Atmosphere or smile,,,, (open)

Of course, these are only some topics. More topics, is you and the girl the present atmosphere.

"He found thousands of baidu, suddenly look back, that person but in the lights dim."

When you learn a lot of technology will not chat. Or has been lost. Then I finally I send you a few words.
 
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1, express their feelings. People from unfamiliar to familiar with is need time and process is a process of screening. Not a few words I love you. You can let her love you madly. Also is not you use a big moves, she was in bad mood back to good mood. You and she chat, step by step. You tend to induce her to show you good quality. Then in expressing affection and appreciation for her, even if you don't do this feeling but can be a little when she was obedient to her praise, provide value to her. You need to give her a availability, rather than a profession.

2, upgrade. A lot of brothers on WeChat chat. Chat very hi. Chat for a long time. Or about not to come out. Or about out no substantial progress. It is not upgrade. What time can advance? She ask you questions, you can do small things in no meeting before to obey. Typing is more than you, more than five times it actively. Then you can push. Feel good on invitation. It's as simple as that.

3, many girls will give you a problem. Honestly express their feelings. Don't be afraid of and dodge, to show the principle of men don't mother-in-law mother whet haw. How to face the test of our WeChat there are speaking in the public platform.

4, to express what you want to and her intentions. Metaphor, XXX together hand in hand this feeling good, you are very gentle ah, suddenly feel you feed I photographed the scene when you eat certain beyond a lot of Korean dramas, and so on. When she accept your intentions. She also willing to out on a date with you. That you go to hold her, kiss her will be simple.

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