This a very puzzling and sad things.
One day I was on my way home at night, heard the call next to a girl's voice: "breaking up a gun." When I think of such a bold and uninhibited girls look like, or pretended not to have heard this in the past to call Windows are so big. Then turned around to see one eye, was a makeup has been spent crying face.
Watching her holding the phone slowly walked away, disappeared into the night lights and the crowd, I felt a tightness in the chest. I know when we feel sorry for people, because they see their own shadows of the past, love the way a man so humble.
Break up gun, why do girls prefer to go to this thing out of my mind, knowing nothing. This is what we ordinary people cannot understand, why on earth would cause humble dedication.
Receive an advisory is a girl above said: "people not to flirt with me, tell me clearly, we won't. But I am zeixinbusi, not clear of the results, but I just can't help it wanted a hope for a miracle, my body and mind back but I still can't let the other side really loves me. How is this good, I read an article you wrote about the article could say is that this investment. ”
Says not to hit the south wall of the heart does not die, but why would someone knocked his brains out hit the south wall also refused to return? She said, pick up the phone, my voice trembling. Even in the shower, naked run out to wipe your hands quickly answered his phone. This is a once in a lifetime love.
One day she holds her favorite pillow. Blatantly burnt pillow side while howling at the roadside, no matter who goes to comfort her, doesn't work, because the man she loves even marries someone else not long after he graduated, said she may never like this in my life tried and had no thought of to love a person. This is the first time she hit the southern wall has been hit he had married someone else.
She told me she got a mature man now, will help her bag, will give her everything looks good on her, but I always feel where not right. I'm married, dating with him is known, being matched, no love, and my heart live people.
I was surprised, are you sure you want this kind of girls after marriage I would like once again to a jealous down based on what? She said, I personally have been working in the care relationship loss and pay, that what I ask people to desperate efforts.
There is this: when we are no longer young, experienced the desire to hit the south wall, and learned then do not say full, love to stay third, before the soldiers, not cutting anything. These are experienced people. But through the stories of people, you are more intelligent, love more out of it.
Remember two years ago under the Lijiang line know a girl, alone in the Dali lived for 3 years, I always thought she was single, until one night we talked about emotional view. She said to me: If married, only to find that is the wrong one, what should I do?
It turns out that this girl was married for 4 years, with her husband separation for 3 years, gave birth to a baby, stay home in Chengdu to bring parents, due to excessive in recent years domestic violence and her husband is cheating, a man ran out. Now I have a sense of pity in this girl moments.
At that time, many present Party learned of the event, qibuguo, nasty HO HO to persuade, so, you never leave anyone?
Well, no.
She is not the reason was straightforward, not because of love, is for themselves, said she half wasted married, children, contributed, paid the body, if, even greater losses. This is an investment. Why are these girls, their lives are not happy is still not compromise result. What each other do what I want from the above two cases, we see more clearly.
No one know their interests better than her own, no matter how much her persistence and decided to look "stupid", but may be she is now standing on its point of optimal decision.
We are not a party, no one can know what is the truth of the story that those seemingly "smart" views are only theories on paper. One unknown details of the truth will become all the basis for reversal of good and evil. So we conducted a more detailed records and details
People are lonely. People are willing to die. Otherwise, why go against the most beloved person, and the sight of indifferent, and to focus on things that can never be? ”
We just because they alone chasing and unrepentant so paranoid?
Not all of them. Most of the time, just because his disguise, my honey.
People love different judgement of the boundary, South wall in your eyes is full of loss, then waft the fragrance in my eyes.
Some people just love giving himself with a sense of death, insisting on love as a variable, put his kidnapping has paid part of the heart.
Psychology, call this part the sunk costs.
An art film was released a few days ago, this extraordinary long shots, shook and I almost threw up.
Then I thought about it, buy movie tickets, read for 20 minutes, do not read what a waste. Friends thought, so we finished strong to see the film.
This is a typical "sunk costs" example of influencing decisions.
Many people will judge what comes next has cost as a basis for action.
Chase a girl are Chase has here long has, spent sent has a heap, money spent has many, now exit on too lost has; I in this work are 5 years has, although not like, but also accumulated has must resources has, suddenly for line has that is unfortunately has; love married total are spent has I 7 years of youth has, now found fundamental not I wants to of people, again to broke up again to divorce, that on too not deal has.
How many people in life, simply too much early effort, and about the principle that hard playing naked? And how many people must treat sunk costs as opportunity cost, you know it's wrong, still don't pay? I think a lot of people have that.
You must always remember that past forever gone, but the next day, still a long way off.
Bump your head with the wall, and there is often an illusion, the more investment more difficult to pull, so using this healthy relationship with you.
From another dimension to give up the "sunk costs", who was a great test, "sunk costs" in the sense of paying out even more difficult.
A project before, early investors to vote by 8 million, and then give a 1-year period, excluding the claims made are given 3 years back, said losses reached 10 million, the immediate end to vote.
Catch the great depression, the project for 8 years, cumulative investment by 30 million investors lost 5 consecutive years, every shareholders ' meeting, discussion around whether or not the end of the project for a long time, but it insisted on pay today, investors could not bear to abandon the "sunk costs", so the losses more and couldn't get out of hand.
Love is one thing, the more you look back, cares for two people together to give a lot of time and gone youth, your rational decisions will become more and more difficult.
Moreover, sometimes a person once started a fruitless thing for a long time, very addictive, this is human psychology and the desire to conquer.
Figure
The paradox of choice, there's such a claim might be able to help people addicted to hit the south wall.
"Happy people at scattered your attention, while unhappy people will continue to reflect on the unhappy experiences, making himself even more sad. ”
Sometimes it can really make us difficult to accept, not harsh truths behind the objective results, and just our subjective feelings.
Ever heard of Leslie tried to?
"Please don't, obsessed with sadness, demonstrating how into each other love, Hello, I'm good, you change me, do not forget the weak would only provoke emotion. ”
We only focus on improving existing relationships, trying not to care about is how much difference can there be hope that recognize, is the south wall of the south wall, home is home, and you are you, she's her.
One day I was on my way home at night, heard the call next to a girl's voice: "breaking up a gun." When I think of such a bold and uninhibited girls look like, or pretended not to have heard this in the past to call Windows are so big. Then turned around to see one eye, was a makeup has been spent crying face.
Watching her holding the phone slowly walked away, disappeared into the night lights and the crowd, I felt a tightness in the chest. I know when we feel sorry for people, because they see their own shadows of the past, love the way a man so humble.
Break up gun, why do girls prefer to go to this thing out of my mind, knowing nothing. This is what we ordinary people cannot understand, why on earth would cause humble dedication.
Receive an advisory is a girl above said: "people not to flirt with me, tell me clearly, we won't. But I am zeixinbusi, not clear of the results, but I just can't help it wanted a hope for a miracle, my body and mind back but I still can't let the other side really loves me. How is this good, I read an article you wrote about the article could say is that this investment. ”
One day she holds her favorite pillow. Blatantly burnt pillow side while howling at the roadside, no matter who goes to comfort her, doesn't work, because the man she loves even marries someone else not long after he graduated, said she may never like this in my life tried and had no thought of to love a person. This is the first time she hit the southern wall has been hit he had married someone else.
She told me she got a mature man now, will help her bag, will give her everything looks good on her, but I always feel where not right. I'm married, dating with him is known, being matched, no love, and my heart live people.
I was surprised, are you sure you want this kind of girls after marriage I would like once again to a jealous down based on what? She said, I personally have been working in the care relationship loss and pay, that what I ask people to desperate efforts.
There is this: when we are no longer young, experienced the desire to hit the south wall, and learned then do not say full, love to stay third, before the soldiers, not cutting anything. These are experienced people. But through the stories of people, you are more intelligent, love more out of it.
Remember two years ago under the Lijiang line know a girl, alone in the Dali lived for 3 years, I always thought she was single, until one night we talked about emotional view. She said to me: If married, only to find that is the wrong one, what should I do?
It turns out that this girl was married for 4 years, with her husband separation for 3 years, gave birth to a baby, stay home in Chengdu to bring parents, due to excessive in recent years domestic violence and her husband is cheating, a man ran out. Now I have a sense of pity in this girl moments.
At that time, many present Party learned of the event, qibuguo, nasty HO HO to persuade, so, you never leave anyone?
Well, no.
She is not the reason was straightforward, not because of love, is for themselves, said she half wasted married, children, contributed, paid the body, if, even greater losses. This is an investment. Why are these girls, their lives are not happy is still not compromise result. What each other do what I want from the above two cases, we see more clearly.
We are not a party, no one can know what is the truth of the story that those seemingly "smart" views are only theories on paper. One unknown details of the truth will become all the basis for reversal of good and evil. So we conducted a more detailed records and details
People are lonely. People are willing to die. Otherwise, why go against the most beloved person, and the sight of indifferent, and to focus on things that can never be? ”
We just because they alone chasing and unrepentant so paranoid?
Not all of them. Most of the time, just because his disguise, my honey.
People love different judgement of the boundary, South wall in your eyes is full of loss, then waft the fragrance in my eyes.
Psychology, call this part the sunk costs.
An art film was released a few days ago, this extraordinary long shots, shook and I almost threw up.
Then I thought about it, buy movie tickets, read for 20 minutes, do not read what a waste. Friends thought, so we finished strong to see the film.
This is a typical "sunk costs" example of influencing decisions.
Many people will judge what comes next has cost as a basis for action.
Chase a girl are Chase has here long has, spent sent has a heap, money spent has many, now exit on too lost has; I in this work are 5 years has, although not like, but also accumulated has must resources has, suddenly for line has that is unfortunately has; love married total are spent has I 7 years of youth has, now found fundamental not I wants to of people, again to broke up again to divorce, that on too not deal has.
You must always remember that past forever gone, but the next day, still a long way off.
Bump your head with the wall, and there is often an illusion, the more investment more difficult to pull, so using this healthy relationship with you.
From another dimension to give up the "sunk costs", who was a great test, "sunk costs" in the sense of paying out even more difficult.
A project before, early investors to vote by 8 million, and then give a 1-year period, excluding the claims made are given 3 years back, said losses reached 10 million, the immediate end to vote.
Love is one thing, the more you look back, cares for two people together to give a lot of time and gone youth, your rational decisions will become more and more difficult.
Moreover, sometimes a person once started a fruitless thing for a long time, very addictive, this is human psychology and the desire to conquer.
Figure
The paradox of choice, there's such a claim might be able to help people addicted to hit the south wall.
"Happy people at scattered your attention, while unhappy people will continue to reflect on the unhappy experiences, making himself even more sad. ”
Sometimes it can really make us difficult to accept, not harsh truths behind the objective results, and just our subjective feelings.
Ever heard of Leslie tried to?
We only focus on improving existing relationships, trying not to care about is how much difference can there be hope that recognize, is the south wall of the south wall, home is home, and you are you, she's her.
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