This feeling too, save the easiest mistake is, "to" to keep each other with affection.
Many cases save, save just split up is running with the purpose of save, finally evolved into crying, entanglement, fault and other extreme.
, instead of a successful save as a result, not only make things worse, each other only a little bit of guilt and the last bit of feelings have been exhausted.
This is a common mistake. Calm down and think about it, really break up reason you actually know.
Rome is not build in a day.
Other dissatisfaction with you maybe said to you that the time from early, isn't it? Your contradiction is accumulated bit by bit, however, the final concentration. In this process, the affection has been depleted bit by bit. You have maybe a relationship dynamic, but also has long been riddled with holes, don't have to miss.
How to save the TA, and master the right way to save, is the key to can you second attract TA.
Step 1: learn to put down. Don't to waste time and waste energy.
Since the other party decided to break up with you, must be a deliberate decision. TA decided to let it go, there must be the cause of the TA. With dead to tie up lousy dozen bored each other, it is better to make the final tender.
You may not know, in the process of save the most taboo is: low lick on my hands and knees, dead to tie up lousy dozen.
The more humble, more let the other side of you. You think with the most thorough, to abandon the way of self-esteem can revive each other?
This kind of behavior is not so much love as extreme psychological blackmail: I have been so humble please, you are cruel don't I?
Instead of doing so not only can't save each other, let the other side and repulsive. Especially in public, but also let the other side is anathema. The other would be fear, to hold you back for your extreme side.
Step 2: look at themselves. Analysis of the real reason for you break up.
If you really together feeling is very good, normal, TA will not break up with you for no reason at all. So, don't escape, don't avoid, think, during the period of you love each other, TA for you more than once expressed dissatisfaction have? Possible to solve these problems? In these problems, you of how much? Change what you can do?
Step 3: improve yourself. Adjust their mentality, is the premise to change and improve yourself.
After he left you, don't wait for you in situ. So, you need to constantly improve themselves and change yourself. According to the previous survey and analysis of the results, make corresponding adjustment and change.
A simple example: both of you are very urgent, temper very blunt, anger, words catch words, hurt each other, and because of a matter of face, can't pull face, had to rigid. Much longer, quarrel, they become character, feelings turn light to break up. A tired tired, one party want to recover. That trying to save the party going to make some positive changes, to think about how to change this bad relationship models.
For example, when they are irritated, you can use humor tips to resolve or other way?
One of my good friend and wife get along way such took three chapters: the other side angry, the other party must not angry at 0:00 day before. Once, when his wife is not comply with unquenchable, he looked at his watch for a while to see his wife, said: "it's my turn right away, you still have half an hour, take the time ah, wife!" His wife once does not know to cry funny by his teasing. Two people smile at one another, and good.
Step 4: give yourself confidence.
Give yourself the confidence, is to let oneself not a low when back. Because of the low, easy to kneel lick. If the relationship between the unequal hasn't changed, even if save is successful, also because the two sides demand imbalance, easily again for the same reason, let the relationship collapse again.
So, don't say: look at our past feelings, give me one more chance. Remember, you want to save is not emotional. Emotional conflicts and quarrels, cooling after case in you, has been gradually to deplete. You can only say that there is a certain relationship.
Remember, you have to do is: to save people, abandon the past, to build a new relationship.
To recover this issue, there is success naturally, there is a failure. Not all feelings are suited to save. So, even if not success, also no big deal. Your world is not only the TA, TA you won't die.
Many cases save, save just split up is running with the purpose of save, finally evolved into crying, entanglement, fault and other extreme.
, instead of a successful save as a result, not only make things worse, each other only a little bit of guilt and the last bit of feelings have been exhausted.
This is a common mistake. Calm down and think about it, really break up reason you actually know.
Rome is not build in a day.
How to save the TA, and master the right way to save, is the key to can you second attract TA.
Since the other party decided to break up with you, must be a deliberate decision. TA decided to let it go, there must be the cause of the TA. With dead to tie up lousy dozen bored each other, it is better to make the final tender.
You may not know, in the process of save the most taboo is: low lick on my hands and knees, dead to tie up lousy dozen.
The more humble, more let the other side of you. You think with the most thorough, to abandon the way of self-esteem can revive each other?
This kind of behavior is not so much love as extreme psychological blackmail: I have been so humble please, you are cruel don't I?
Instead of doing so not only can't save each other, let the other side and repulsive. Especially in public, but also let the other side is anathema. The other would be fear, to hold you back for your extreme side.
If you really together feeling is very good, normal, TA will not break up with you for no reason at all. So, don't escape, don't avoid, think, during the period of you love each other, TA for you more than once expressed dissatisfaction have? Possible to solve these problems? In these problems, you of how much? Change what you can do?
After he left you, don't wait for you in situ. So, you need to constantly improve themselves and change yourself. According to the previous survey and analysis of the results, make corresponding adjustment and change.
A simple example: both of you are very urgent, temper very blunt, anger, words catch words, hurt each other, and because of a matter of face, can't pull face, had to rigid. Much longer, quarrel, they become character, feelings turn light to break up. A tired tired, one party want to recover. That trying to save the party going to make some positive changes, to think about how to change this bad relationship models.
For example, when they are irritated, you can use humor tips to resolve or other way?
One of my good friend and wife get along way such took three chapters: the other side angry, the other party must not angry at 0:00 day before. Once, when his wife is not comply with unquenchable, he looked at his watch for a while to see his wife, said: "it's my turn right away, you still have half an hour, take the time ah, wife!" His wife once does not know to cry funny by his teasing. Two people smile at one another, and good.
Give yourself the confidence, is to let oneself not a low when back. Because of the low, easy to kneel lick. If the relationship between the unequal hasn't changed, even if save is successful, also because the two sides demand imbalance, easily again for the same reason, let the relationship collapse again.
So, don't say: look at our past feelings, give me one more chance. Remember, you want to save is not emotional. Emotional conflicts and quarrels, cooling after case in you, has been gradually to deplete. You can only say that there is a certain relationship.
Remember, you have to do is: to save people, abandon the past, to build a new relationship.
To recover this issue, there is success naturally, there is a failure. Not all feelings are suited to save. So, even if not success, also no big deal. Your world is not only the TA, TA you won't die.
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