Monday, January 9, 2017

3 recruit let she said: her husband go on, don't pull out!

Now tell you a the most simple eduction process. Brothers have to actual combat. Familiar with brahman dust love we learn brothers all know about the woman's thinking is the perceptual, man's thinking is rational. Often in for there is no love experience or want to improve your friends in the world. They are can't understand a woman, in the "men are from Mars and women are from Venus" is detailed to introduce.

Well, now that said the problem. So I can tell you how to do can make thinking consistency between men and women.

Say first, what is the perceptual thinking, the so-called perceptual thinking is the branch of collaborative perception, definition and understanding of things. That is at this point, if the established knowledge system is a fixed level of understanding, cognition level is limited to subject description, if it is checks and balances, understanding behavior into the infinite knowledge connection without subject. Deviation with rational thinking is wrong. More emotional factors, that is what we often heard that women tend to like a bad man, not really a gift, to see her, good for her. So you have to learn the skill of is to have her attraction, go to her.

Today for everyone to share. A rational thinking become emotional if, if a woman can understand you, and if not directly from the side to show off to show your high value, this method is -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- to tell stories.

Learned to no matter you are on the network chat, or in the dating process, will be laughing, and sister.
 
Some people would tell us the story since we were children. Some story you want to hear. After finished we still want to be with stories of the people. So here we say a story, is not a fairy tale, but your life tell you want to attract the woman. In other words, is to make a woman fall in love with you, deep heart, the story is always essential.

We draw on women in the process of telling a story is divided into two types:

First of all, to stimulate the desire to buy the story.
Second, increase the purchase degree of the story.

What is the desire to buy and buy? To tell you a little story: a pair of mother and daughter in the sacred in street. Mother long very old very ugly (1). And the daughter is born of graceful (8). Began his old mother performance is very good, a good laugh at us. His daughter play. Although play monkey skills not Chad, shape, appearance, is an absolute beauty. Despite the monkey really want to know her. And a romantic. And what the story reveals to us.

Is actually two things: old mother with very strong skills, laugh, we lift our desire to continue to look at. And the daughter, had wanted to know her, then to the idea of an intimate relationship with her. Perhaps, not a daughter, the old mother just flash in our mind forget it in a few days. Daughter didn't want to contact, let us feel sorry for a long, long time. Old mother stimulus is our desire to look that is the desire to buy. This desire without value. Just a moment. While the emergence of the daughter to stimulate our buy degrees, let we want to go and she knew. Because she has a strong visual value.

 

Desire is short of emotional stimuli, and buy degrees (attract) is long, will eventually cause sexual and romantic pairing.

Well, anyway.

We just know a girl, to emerge from a large crowd of her suitors. The first to do is to stimulate the desire to buy her. We fly man whether she had ever seen. Can use magic, jokes, performances, telling stories, etc. This is a story of the so-called stimulate the desire to buy.

The characteristics of this kind of story: 1 new topic. 2 humor topic. 3 happy topic. 4 easy topic. Five little self high value embedded -- -- -- -- -- - give the girl a flame temperament.

Short of this kind of story structure: 1, 2, 3, 4 finally asked her if she have such a similar situation, lure her to talk -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- so we can show different personality and life fun.

The attitude of a story: relaxed tone, rich expression -- -- -- -- -- -- -- to show their personality.

Borrow me four themes in the actual combat (food, pet, shopping, tourism) and four stories, the story of the last week, when I was a child story, growth story, the name of the story)

Example: a girl and I first date, with the assumption that intimacy and she greet a after the meeting, I would then enable such a story:

1, hello, xiaoxi. I see your bags, pretty good. I've seen on taobao, ah, you don't know, my first time on taobao, very excited. I see a lot of I want to buy things, decisive, opened the bank on the net the endless brush. When receiving something special excitement, open it quickly. The mood will be very good. But by the end of the month can only eat instant noodles. The moon light. Do you have any such feeling,,,, then the second topic.

2, I last week to visit guilin,,,,,,,,

3, how about my dog,,,,,,,,,

Vacuum method! Waiting for her reply.

As long as her reply. We will listen carefully, and then screening, the final fugue is a man of the world, is a way of life, hobbies, habits, the person of the same attribute.

If she not response, decisive in the story.

 

Above, for the first time can be solved and the girl have nothing to say.
She like to speak to us. We need to more emotional connections.

We contact the increase purchase degrees above the sea.

Value for us to buy degrees, is bound to lure her recognition of the switch. Let her because we are a high value of man. That we have the value of the appeal?

Men show high value for: 1 health. 2 social intuition. 3 a sense of humor. 4. 5 the wealth. 6 primary (female popularity is very good). 7 the challenge. 8 self-confidence.
 
And at the same time is the low value: 1 no friends (male friends and girlfriend). 2 no status (social). 3 no resources (money). 4 no body. 5 no emotional health. This is we want to avoid.

Then how do we go to tell the story of a good high value?

We can take a story. Take at home and watch the Japanese love action movies. (depressing story enough!)

Step 1: the structure of the story. Time, characters and events. The three elements.

"Personal at home last Monday I see Japan love action movies."

Step 2: remove the low value of things. (because the story did not can this step)

"My colleagues and I in baidu search papers last week, but to see her. Seeing her love action movies at home and her journey, she is I admire a person, her name was sora aoi."

 

Step 3: embedded high value of the story.

"Last week, my colleagues and I in baidu search medical paper, and then to see her, to yushu earthquake donation behind calls for a" people's friendship between China and Japan. "didn't think of a Japanese porn star will have such energy, and her name was sora aoi. I looked at her journey. A weak woman from for my father pay one's due to step by step towards the draft stage, behind the AV. To the back of the transformation. It is to rely on their own step by step to come out. You can also walk such a road ha ha" (get powder, the story interesting)

Step 4: to join a feeling and sense of humor, interesting, jealousy, happy, fantasy, such as the value of (emotional) and integrated into the expression of the story.

"Last week, my colleagues and I in baidu search medical paper, and then to see her, to yushu earthquake donation, behind calls for a" people's friendship between China and Japan. (easy, pause) didn't think of a Japanese porn star will have such energy, and her name was sora aoi. (surprise) I still see her film, very beautiful. I like the type and her journey.
 
(smile) a weak woman from for my father pay one's due to step by step towards the draft stage, behind the AV. To the back of the good transformation. This is to rely on their own step by step to come out. (admire) suddenly, the thought of us out a medical students to doctor today. Began to feel a week 2 two night shift very bitter, now used to it. It's nothing. Ha ha,, (not)"

The show has a high value of the story: 1 a friend, progresses 2, 3 have social status, 4 side filter, 5 self-confidence, six challenges, the desire to do better

Good, through this example we see. Women like from what you express from I tell you is a what kind of person, instead, you say one of my friends a lot, I work very hard, I am very responsible, such a result oriented. Is that clear?

I believe that after watching this article, we can get rid of the girl without saying a huge problem, so as to better attract the people around you. Actually, tell a story in plain English is a kind of expression.

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