Is preparing to shut down that day from work and found the background there is a message, intended to reply again the next day, fortunately, curiosity to see a look. Is a girl named shan sent for help information, tone very hesitant.
Well, it seems that, the girl had a difficult relationship problems. I let her relax mood, calm state the problem: teacher, I think that my boyfriend he...... Is character, I love him, but I can't accept such a man he is...
In order to help her solve the problem, I let her say in detail, how she doing with her boyfriend, like to say something ribaldry, ear-piercing screech.
Shan, this also wondered at the same time, the men will look at ordinary times, theone, why changed completely personal when make love?
She dislike, but men's votes, sometimes even to let her into all sorts of strange characters. Because love each other very much, she would try to cooperate, but she always ashamed after the event, and this kind of sense of shame is deepened step by step, finally overwhelmed.
In fact, each other between husband and wife tease, flirting, said some "meaningful" language, this is normal. Women than men are sexual excitement start slow, usually takes longer. At this point, if the said some "dirty words" can stimulate lust on both sides.
From a psychoanalytic point of view, people in with the usual civilization consciousness, the embodiment of the cerebral cortex inhibition) won't let away from "dirty words" exports, but as a result of having sex, body height excited, the cerebral cortex will be temporary or partial loss of inhibition. "This I" and the subconscious will break through the "self". So stay away from "dirty words" has emerged in the unconscious.
This theory suggests that those sex and happy when I can't help to talk with "color", to selflessly lovemaking. Visible, couples in sexual excitement, said some "dirty words" is understandable, there is no fault, more can't say.
The differences of this kind of habit, husband and wife can communicate through honest and eventually to achieve mutual understanding and adaptation.
Like shan this case, the problem was with her boyfriend not to prepare to the other party. Shan understanding of role play is not much, in the first contact with the two sides should first be thought on the construction, in this way can role play for the harmonious sex life points.
So how to make the other party involved in the role play with you:
Do a good job in psychological construction. If the person never exposed to this aspect of sex knowledge, intervention too suddenly, it is easy to be scared, and then produce misunderstanding and fear of sex. Once fear form, next time will have a very want to resist, can appear even if serious mental problems.
Step by step. In the beginning, do not act too hastily, must step by step, to guide each other to accompany you. At the time of each other to resist, don't for their own desire to force the other party, in the case of each other feel comfortable, until the two sides together.
Good role playing experience can add cent for the harmonious sex life, in the process, keep in mind that the following three points are important:
The first: the input character. This is the foundation. Forget your identity, carefully into the role play, don't laugh, there will be passion.
The second: imagination into full play. Release the true self, to suppress your inner most part of the project to the role, this can let you in the process of sexual release deepest longing. Imagine the rich, then more stimulus and moving, the better the experience of both sides will be. Of course, props to realistic.
Third: the tacit understanding to cooperate. This is based on the above two points. Releasing yourself if can input character, the degree of the two sides will cooperate with more and more high, in the long run will have the tacit understanding, role play can become very simple, can completely is not limited to, such as clothing, setting the external things.
Here recommend several kinds of basic role play, fun for everybody:
1, the police, and the bad guys: serious police's uncle and female prisoners, to get its own manufacturing scenarios. Or a policewoman, favors the same for a rogue villains.
2, the doctor's adult: the doctor let you take off you take off, the doctor let you lie prone to lie prone...
3, meet stranger: manufacturing a strange encounter, attracted by the two sides...
4, sex workers: sexy acme of wearing and service, to meet customer demand, to play their work quality charge......
5, pirates and captive: a game to conquer each other sex, strong pirates, unruly prisoners...
6, a maid or groom's secret date: quiet at night, miss the opportunity came for a long time... Remember to wear apron oh ~ ~
Well, it seems that, the girl had a difficult relationship problems. I let her relax mood, calm state the problem: teacher, I think that my boyfriend he...... Is character, I love him, but I can't accept such a man he is...
In order to help her solve the problem, I let her say in detail, how she doing with her boyfriend, like to say something ribaldry, ear-piercing screech.
Shan, this also wondered at the same time, the men will look at ordinary times, theone, why changed completely personal when make love?
She dislike, but men's votes, sometimes even to let her into all sorts of strange characters. Because love each other very much, she would try to cooperate, but she always ashamed after the event, and this kind of sense of shame is deepened step by step, finally overwhelmed.
In fact, each other between husband and wife tease, flirting, said some "meaningful" language, this is normal. Women than men are sexual excitement start slow, usually takes longer. At this point, if the said some "dirty words" can stimulate lust on both sides.
From a psychoanalytic point of view, people in with the usual civilization consciousness, the embodiment of the cerebral cortex inhibition) won't let away from "dirty words" exports, but as a result of having sex, body height excited, the cerebral cortex will be temporary or partial loss of inhibition. "This I" and the subconscious will break through the "self". So stay away from "dirty words" has emerged in the unconscious.
This theory suggests that those sex and happy when I can't help to talk with "color", to selflessly lovemaking. Visible, couples in sexual excitement, said some "dirty words" is understandable, there is no fault, more can't say.
The differences of this kind of habit, husband and wife can communicate through honest and eventually to achieve mutual understanding and adaptation.
Like shan this case, the problem was with her boyfriend not to prepare to the other party. Shan understanding of role play is not much, in the first contact with the two sides should first be thought on the construction, in this way can role play for the harmonious sex life points.
So how to make the other party involved in the role play with you:
Do a good job in psychological construction. If the person never exposed to this aspect of sex knowledge, intervention too suddenly, it is easy to be scared, and then produce misunderstanding and fear of sex. Once fear form, next time will have a very want to resist, can appear even if serious mental problems.
Step by step. In the beginning, do not act too hastily, must step by step, to guide each other to accompany you. At the time of each other to resist, don't for their own desire to force the other party, in the case of each other feel comfortable, until the two sides together.
Good role playing experience can add cent for the harmonious sex life, in the process, keep in mind that the following three points are important:
The first: the input character. This is the foundation. Forget your identity, carefully into the role play, don't laugh, there will be passion.
The second: imagination into full play. Release the true self, to suppress your inner most part of the project to the role, this can let you in the process of sexual release deepest longing. Imagine the rich, then more stimulus and moving, the better the experience of both sides will be. Of course, props to realistic.
Third: the tacit understanding to cooperate. This is based on the above two points. Releasing yourself if can input character, the degree of the two sides will cooperate with more and more high, in the long run will have the tacit understanding, role play can become very simple, can completely is not limited to, such as clothing, setting the external things.
Here recommend several kinds of basic role play, fun for everybody:
1, the police, and the bad guys: serious police's uncle and female prisoners, to get its own manufacturing scenarios. Or a policewoman, favors the same for a rogue villains.
2, the doctor's adult: the doctor let you take off you take off, the doctor let you lie prone to lie prone...
3, meet stranger: manufacturing a strange encounter, attracted by the two sides...
4, sex workers: sexy acme of wearing and service, to meet customer demand, to play their work quality charge......
5, pirates and captive: a game to conquer each other sex, strong pirates, unruly prisoners...
6, a maid or groom's secret date: quiet at night, miss the opportunity came for a long time... Remember to wear apron oh ~ ~
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