We have been saying, no matter what you say beautiful words, in what way is really just a icing on the cake. Why do you say that?
First of all, we have to clear a problem. We do see movies and TV shows on success. It was all drama is used to make the story fascinating, what you see in the TV series the hero is always want to go to work to work. Don't go to work can always accompany sister romantic, vindicate success is built on, sister already have feelings for you later. Do I love to drive you together.
Tend to most people, I didn't establish contact and familiarity, sister don't know about you, is to say, this profession will often create pressure to sister. SMS back slowly, the phone is not answered. I believe that a lot of brothers met such situation. The wrong way will only let her leave you forever, no hope, in the right way to have the effect.
"I don't fit you, you will find a better." When a girl says such words mean, I also did not feel to you, you are not attracted to me, you don't let me to like you. Or popular speak this is her in "reject" your profession. I love failure?
I know, most men will encounter similar situation. They have such a girl, may be his side's colleague, classmate congenial began to feel nice chat, so I had a good gradually; Or a like her before, but because of various reasons for a time not contact, again because of a coincidence, you met her again...
No matter what, when, where, when you find that you begin to like a girl. You begin to deeper, unable to extricate themselves, even dig three feet. She speak any word with you, you can drill down, she gave you a smile, can make you happy. Personalities don't you go to do the test, not to rise. Every day in thinking about the girl say those words.
Until one day you finally unbearable, fantasy, if she could be his girlfriend. But what can you do
To most men, once you have this thought, nightmare began. They began trying to please a woman, woman is a gift, texting care about her, of course also include the "confession" to women. They naive to think that it is "hard" won the women's method, the result of:
"I don't fit you, you will find a better."
"I always put you as best friend to you I didn't have that kind of feeling."
"You are like my brother/relatives, I don't want to destroy the friendship."
I once played a, for example, if you are not attracted to a woman, that you do is just like the coin, positive is "reject", the opposite is "let's be friends" in this case, only the profile (i.e., you only have to throw a coin) she will promise.
Worse still. Failure to do ask for advice.
I found that more than 70% of men, after the defeat of the profession, will think may be this time I bad luck, or may do my way out of the question, and then on the Internet search all kinds of "profession" approach, carefully prepared small gift, say to the girl again after a few days or weeks, even some dead to tie up lousy dozen, even begged to have... Under the condition of the said winner in emotional, even said to the girl I fell in love with you so good you still do this to me. More pressure of intangible to the girls.
Any time we don't do a passive let girls choose us. Like street, take with you when I said don't say, "can I meet you?" "Can not know your contact information." And so on. Because you have the choice to teach the girls.
Most Chinese girls are reserved. Even some meaning to you at the beginning. After you get the best promise, that is, I think about it. Girls don't like to choose. So we love tutorial theory as a man to lead the girls are put forward. Lead the dating place, leading thought, lead the topic. For girls, this a series of actions are foreshadowing a form of security.
Make friends girls said not appropriate, you still keep chasing! If you go to this step, so women 100% will refuse to you, and to restore her to increase the difficulty.
It's like, a woman who has no interest in you, she say to you in good or rejected by you, then she call you every day, and tell how much she likes you, for you do cattle and horses. You can see her every day up 10 messages sent you in the middle of the night, at noon I always ask you to dinner have no on the qq, evening you will want to play the game, she was kept in call you...
How would you feel?
You will feel tired! You will be more hate her, you will not answer her phone, not to return her SMS, not to return WeChat, even loudly denounced, let her not to harass you.
You will definitely do it, so women can also!
That what can be done to let the girl to be with you, agreed to be your girlfriend?
Method, simple! Is to make her like you, first is to let she is attracted to you, or I call her mood "attraction".
If there is a you love a girl, she want to be with you, she need to do?
She need not to need to send you a gift, do tell you is very moving
Don't need, you desire! You can naturally together. Now there is a kind of situation, WeChat with beauty on the head and then chat with you for a few days, not doing a financial investment, is to make you send her a red envelope. You think, you like a person, you will call her began to send you a red envelope. : you won't, because you are afraid when you ask for the value, the one will leave you. So now you know what should you do when someone ask you to a red envelope? Don't always ask others to do the failure to do so.
As men are the same, if you do, your personality, your charm can attract her. So the next thing on autopilot, the about out of time to come out, and then physical intimacy upgrade (holding hands -- - kissing, touching, body language up close), all natural, follow.
And "confession" to arouse the woman being "attract" mood without any help, you would only hinder to attract, because:
1 do, makes the most women like men "mystique" disappear
A data show that the world's best-selling book is we called the book of romance novels. And these books readers basic are female. A classical framework, these romantic fiction is that from to end is the heroine in the guess this actor exactly like himself, he seems to be some performance like yourself, but it may not seem like... To the plot and write a 200 page, there are so many women will go to see, why?
Because women like didn't know this man is really like their feelings, they always like to guess "what does he like it or not I," that let them enjoy, that makes them feel this man has A mystery, this kind of feeling for women like men we look at "A" piece of cool. And your profession is ruthless destroy the rights of woman "enjoy".
2 man's behavior, expression is not enough
This you must find it hard to understand, but it is true that man's behavior on the woman's eyes is not enough. Because, the really attractive man never to a woman, but woman like yourself, attracted by himself. Their self-confidence, humor, funny, always know the mood of the woman, and how to attract them.
And "profession" is often do not know how to do those of the elder brothers, they don't know how to attract a woman, so also could not find a better way, can only do choose to take a chance. From another perspective, profession and so on so the decision to the woman, this is very don't like women. Is also very low "social value". Remember that in a relationship is always the man have the initiative, so is always chosen by men to whether can with this woman, not give the right woman.
Good, then I want to say is probably the most care about you, is the failure of his profession do? But if you really want to increase the chance of recover her, then in strict accordance with the method I said to do it. But before reading it, make sure you fully understand what I said above these things, because, in my opinion, I speak of the above things, than I want to talk about the following specific methods and techniques is much more important.
We continue to.
If I were you, I will first realized that she now is my impression of my "social value" less than her, so she didn't like me, and she clearly know that I love her, so she will I leave, because she will worry if she continue to contact with me, I will get it wrong I also play with her.
In other words, I before her like you show to her I like her, let her defenses were for me, cause she will avoid me.
I were you, I'll do it:
1, at least in the next two months will no longer take the initiative to contact her, don't give her hair message, no phone, no chat WeChat. Unless she actively looking for you online, resolutely ignored. Even she actively looking for you, every time chat and dialogue, must be, remember that is must be actively look for excuses to leave you, tell her you are busy, occupy, talk to you later.
2, in you QQ signature, including your qzone microblogging, blog, kaixin, renren WeChat etc. She can see them every day in the signature, the signature will tell you how to play happy today, where to go, do anything interesting things, the purpose is to through such passed to her: without you, my life so happy. - up your social value. At the same time bring a feeling of psychological gap girl. The gap between feeling for her attitude will be helpful to you.
3, after seven or eight days, you can be in qq, sina weibo, WeChat posted pictures of you and other girls play, even in the circle of friends, involving other girls ambiguous words with you, such as to add the name of the other girls, we haven't seen you for ages. Such as: tomorrow can't accompany you, I'm sorry to have to work overtime. Or: thank you for your gift, very cute. Circle of friends, and so on, let her feel you have any other girl like you. - increase your social value
4, the above three just skills, more important still is your understanding of men and women attracted, obviously, from what you have just said letter of "devoted" show the most real, you also need to learn to attract the essence of the men and women, what let a woman like a man. What is the truth? I've being authentic, never succeed. But once I went to study how to attract women, how to create attraction, and the girl everything changed.
So, if your inner to attract, to men and women relation is not changed, no learning promotion, even if you saved her, you will lose her at last. If you from the inside out, however, allow yourself to become more attractive, more know the appeal to learn, so, you not only can attract her, but will also attract more its her girls, including those that you don't imagine girl now. I think now you should do for failure to do this problem with some answers, then how will see your performance, come on!
One way to tell you is do not use body language to increase relationship.
Do you think about it if you like a girl. She told you "hands." How will you. You can refuse to her? Start because of social pressure, perhaps you will gently began to resist, but the heart is also acceptable. You refuse the first time, the second time she in touch you, will you still refused to you, if you refuse, so for the third time you won't necessarily. That in our chat conversation we use body language to do some touch. High frequency, time is short, the acceptance test each other. Than do you want to come to reality a lot of?
First of all, we have to clear a problem. We do see movies and TV shows on success. It was all drama is used to make the story fascinating, what you see in the TV series the hero is always want to go to work to work. Don't go to work can always accompany sister romantic, vindicate success is built on, sister already have feelings for you later. Do I love to drive you together.
Tend to most people, I didn't establish contact and familiarity, sister don't know about you, is to say, this profession will often create pressure to sister. SMS back slowly, the phone is not answered. I believe that a lot of brothers met such situation. The wrong way will only let her leave you forever, no hope, in the right way to have the effect.
"I don't fit you, you will find a better." When a girl says such words mean, I also did not feel to you, you are not attracted to me, you don't let me to like you. Or popular speak this is her in "reject" your profession. I love failure?
I know, most men will encounter similar situation. They have such a girl, may be his side's colleague, classmate congenial began to feel nice chat, so I had a good gradually; Or a like her before, but because of various reasons for a time not contact, again because of a coincidence, you met her again...
No matter what, when, where, when you find that you begin to like a girl. You begin to deeper, unable to extricate themselves, even dig three feet. She speak any word with you, you can drill down, she gave you a smile, can make you happy. Personalities don't you go to do the test, not to rise. Every day in thinking about the girl say those words.
Until one day you finally unbearable, fantasy, if she could be his girlfriend. But what can you do
"I don't fit you, you will find a better."
"I always put you as best friend to you I didn't have that kind of feeling."
"You are like my brother/relatives, I don't want to destroy the friendship."
I once played a, for example, if you are not attracted to a woman, that you do is just like the coin, positive is "reject", the opposite is "let's be friends" in this case, only the profile (i.e., you only have to throw a coin) she will promise.
Worse still. Failure to do ask for advice.
I found that more than 70% of men, after the defeat of the profession, will think may be this time I bad luck, or may do my way out of the question, and then on the Internet search all kinds of "profession" approach, carefully prepared small gift, say to the girl again after a few days or weeks, even some dead to tie up lousy dozen, even begged to have... Under the condition of the said winner in emotional, even said to the girl I fell in love with you so good you still do this to me. More pressure of intangible to the girls.
Any time we don't do a passive let girls choose us. Like street, take with you when I said don't say, "can I meet you?" "Can not know your contact information." And so on. Because you have the choice to teach the girls.
Most Chinese girls are reserved. Even some meaning to you at the beginning. After you get the best promise, that is, I think about it. Girls don't like to choose. So we love tutorial theory as a man to lead the girls are put forward. Lead the dating place, leading thought, lead the topic. For girls, this a series of actions are foreshadowing a form of security.
Make friends girls said not appropriate, you still keep chasing! If you go to this step, so women 100% will refuse to you, and to restore her to increase the difficulty.
It's like, a woman who has no interest in you, she say to you in good or rejected by you, then she call you every day, and tell how much she likes you, for you do cattle and horses. You can see her every day up 10 messages sent you in the middle of the night, at noon I always ask you to dinner have no on the qq, evening you will want to play the game, she was kept in call you...
How would you feel?
You will feel tired! You will be more hate her, you will not answer her phone, not to return her SMS, not to return WeChat, even loudly denounced, let her not to harass you.
You will definitely do it, so women can also!
That what can be done to let the girl to be with you, agreed to be your girlfriend?
Method, simple! Is to make her like you, first is to let she is attracted to you, or I call her mood "attraction".
If there is a you love a girl, she want to be with you, she need to do?
She need not to need to send you a gift, do tell you is very moving
Don't need, you desire! You can naturally together. Now there is a kind of situation, WeChat with beauty on the head and then chat with you for a few days, not doing a financial investment, is to make you send her a red envelope. You think, you like a person, you will call her began to send you a red envelope. : you won't, because you are afraid when you ask for the value, the one will leave you. So now you know what should you do when someone ask you to a red envelope? Don't always ask others to do the failure to do so.
As men are the same, if you do, your personality, your charm can attract her. So the next thing on autopilot, the about out of time to come out, and then physical intimacy upgrade (holding hands -- - kissing, touching, body language up close), all natural, follow.
And "confession" to arouse the woman being "attract" mood without any help, you would only hinder to attract, because:
1 do, makes the most women like men "mystique" disappear
A data show that the world's best-selling book is we called the book of romance novels. And these books readers basic are female. A classical framework, these romantic fiction is that from to end is the heroine in the guess this actor exactly like himself, he seems to be some performance like yourself, but it may not seem like... To the plot and write a 200 page, there are so many women will go to see, why?
Because women like didn't know this man is really like their feelings, they always like to guess "what does he like it or not I," that let them enjoy, that makes them feel this man has A mystery, this kind of feeling for women like men we look at "A" piece of cool. And your profession is ruthless destroy the rights of woman "enjoy".
2 man's behavior, expression is not enough
This you must find it hard to understand, but it is true that man's behavior on the woman's eyes is not enough. Because, the really attractive man never to a woman, but woman like yourself, attracted by himself. Their self-confidence, humor, funny, always know the mood of the woman, and how to attract them.
And "profession" is often do not know how to do those of the elder brothers, they don't know how to attract a woman, so also could not find a better way, can only do choose to take a chance. From another perspective, profession and so on so the decision to the woman, this is very don't like women. Is also very low "social value". Remember that in a relationship is always the man have the initiative, so is always chosen by men to whether can with this woman, not give the right woman.
Good, then I want to say is probably the most care about you, is the failure of his profession do? But if you really want to increase the chance of recover her, then in strict accordance with the method I said to do it. But before reading it, make sure you fully understand what I said above these things, because, in my opinion, I speak of the above things, than I want to talk about the following specific methods and techniques is much more important.
We continue to.
If I were you, I will first realized that she now is my impression of my "social value" less than her, so she didn't like me, and she clearly know that I love her, so she will I leave, because she will worry if she continue to contact with me, I will get it wrong I also play with her.
In other words, I before her like you show to her I like her, let her defenses were for me, cause she will avoid me.
I were you, I'll do it:
1, at least in the next two months will no longer take the initiative to contact her, don't give her hair message, no phone, no chat WeChat. Unless she actively looking for you online, resolutely ignored. Even she actively looking for you, every time chat and dialogue, must be, remember that is must be actively look for excuses to leave you, tell her you are busy, occupy, talk to you later.
2, in you QQ signature, including your qzone microblogging, blog, kaixin, renren WeChat etc. She can see them every day in the signature, the signature will tell you how to play happy today, where to go, do anything interesting things, the purpose is to through such passed to her: without you, my life so happy. - up your social value. At the same time bring a feeling of psychological gap girl. The gap between feeling for her attitude will be helpful to you.
3, after seven or eight days, you can be in qq, sina weibo, WeChat posted pictures of you and other girls play, even in the circle of friends, involving other girls ambiguous words with you, such as to add the name of the other girls, we haven't seen you for ages. Such as: tomorrow can't accompany you, I'm sorry to have to work overtime. Or: thank you for your gift, very cute. Circle of friends, and so on, let her feel you have any other girl like you. - increase your social value
4, the above three just skills, more important still is your understanding of men and women attracted, obviously, from what you have just said letter of "devoted" show the most real, you also need to learn to attract the essence of the men and women, what let a woman like a man. What is the truth? I've being authentic, never succeed. But once I went to study how to attract women, how to create attraction, and the girl everything changed.
So, if your inner to attract, to men and women relation is not changed, no learning promotion, even if you saved her, you will lose her at last. If you from the inside out, however, allow yourself to become more attractive, more know the appeal to learn, so, you not only can attract her, but will also attract more its her girls, including those that you don't imagine girl now. I think now you should do for failure to do this problem with some answers, then how will see your performance, come on!
One way to tell you is do not use body language to increase relationship.
Do you think about it if you like a girl. She told you "hands." How will you. You can refuse to her? Start because of social pressure, perhaps you will gently began to resist, but the heart is also acceptable. You refuse the first time, the second time she in touch you, will you still refused to you, if you refuse, so for the third time you won't necessarily. That in our chat conversation we use body language to do some touch. High frequency, time is short, the acceptance test each other. Than do you want to come to reality a lot of?
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