Tuesday, January 10, 2017

You may have to cheat?

Recently received a special case about an affair to save more, in view the background note, also found that the number of consulting. So today, let's do a period for the analysis of the phenomenon of cheating, let more people know about an affair.

Derailed derailed from big type to sum up, the main points of two kinds: active and passive derailed derailed; From the motivation of cheating, derailed derailed in general is divided into physical and mental.

Today we have derailed the following phenomenon for analysis:




Derailed derailed 1. Take the initiative to the physiology of cheating: this type is called a "common", this type of people tend to like cheating of old, grasshopper, chop and change. They often behave very natural and unrestrained, very romantic, love a love another, whether men or women will have the public lover type the characters in the. This kind of person regardless of marriage to the opposite sex to make frivolous action at any moment, language frivolous.

This type of cheating in the majority with men.

For example: one customer has so described her cheating husband love: before marriage, I will know that he is "flower", but after I with he together, he told me that I will be his flower heart of the terminator, he would have been good to me, forever only love me a.

In order not to disappoint me this trust, he is willing to abandon all previous habit and I live together, I hope I can help him, love him. He is a very intelligent man, brilliant, have a career, romantic Ti me. I resolutely decided to with him.



But less than half a year later, since I became pregnant with my child, he began to cheat. I want to go to the wall he went to scold him and get even with the woman, but no use, no matter what I do is useless, I really feel collapse.

Derailed derailed derailed 2. Take the initiative to the spirituality of: this type generally have occurred many years of marriage, passion subsided. Love is a best reason for marriage, but love is a feeling, when this feeling subsided, one party may go around looking for love, looking for emotional comfort, once found in a certain situation, meet bosom friend, it is easy to cheat.

General this type of cheating in the majority with married women.

3. The passive derailed derailed physiological: this type is called "derailed sex XuQiuXing" again. This type of cheat reason probably was due to the unsatisfactory sex.



Influenced by traditional culture, people is almost a talk about sex. Are you hungry cold, exposure is not someone will laugh at you in public, even brought a bowl of hot noodles for you or with a warm coat.

But if you're hungry, not only to be buried deep in the heart, dare not to reveal, but also afraid of being you. The traditional ideas on the effect of entrenched, causing many women shy away from this topic.

A lot of marriage tragedy is due to the unsatisfactory sex, the two sides are not being met, it is easy to cheat when meet the ideal object. The reality with hungry to dizziness, someone gave you a bowl of rice, truth is the same.

4. Passive derailed derailed spirituality: this type of cheating and active spirit derailed somewhat similar, but this type of cheating more on the spirit of both sides communication level and personality.

Between husband and wife the rights and wrongs of itself without too much sense, the two sides once the problems in the communication, feel tired, plus family relationships't cut, tension, it is easy to lead to cheating.



This type of infidelity multiple weak strong men and women in the family.

When both sides of husband and wife relationship between inequality, high overhead, a strong side vulnerable accommodate humble. A woman can't get enough from this unequal relationship between love and the man can't get enough respect from this relationship.

Contact in our case, often found in which pain but very difficult to get rid of, the parties often will retain blindly, even don't know in which has been gradually into a vicious cycle of a kind of morbid.

There are a lot of people said that for the children only once and again, repeatedly choose to forgive, if cheating becomes the norm, only numb to tolerate, even thought their inclusion fulfilled the whole family, little imagine malformation relationship not only let oneself pain, often the family into a purgatory.

Whether love or marriage, want to get happiness needs to be both honest and respect each other, support each other, grow together.

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