With the favorite person, the other side no response, then how to let him (her) like you? For this emotional distress, Xiao Bian in this for everyone doubts Q & A, related skills to see the contents of the text it
What should I do with my sweetheart? How to let each other also like their own? I want to teach you the first move is "frequent meet". If the sweetheart is a school student, you can find ways to blend into his (her) social circle; if the sweetheart is a colleague in the workplace, you have to adjust their time to work with each other, and strive to meet on the road. Anyway, it is more to meet.
"So simple?" Certainly someone will have such a question. But I can responsibly tell you that such a simple method is really very effective. People are more likely to have a good impression on people or things that have come into contact with many times, which is called "simple contact principle" in psychology. Moreover, just simply increase the number of contacts, it is possible to cultivate a good impression. So, if you have a sweetheart, as much as possible in front of him (her) appeared. In any case, "mixed face familiar" first.
If you like a person, want to win each other's goodwill, in addition to frequent meet, the best often appear in his (her) side. American psychologist Cohen has done an experiment, so that a man at the same time with the two women chat, but one of the women from the men only 50cm, while another woman from the men 2.4m. Psychologists want to study the relationship between distance and goodwill. The results found that men closer to their own women more than a good impression, the woman also had a good impression on the men.
Another psychologist in the United States has investigated the relationship between the relationship and distance of the apartment tenants. The result is that the closer the neighbors live, the better the relationship. Not only in the same floor there is such a phenomenon, even between the two floors, but also the nearest neighbor relationship is the best. It can be seen that people are close to their own people tend to have a good impression, psychology will be called this phenomenon "close to the factors."
Simply just look at the glances, distance away from some, you can enhance the goodwill between each other. If you can understand each other, the goodwill between each other will be further deepened. This is psychologically known as the "familiarity". For example, an office colleague, who is working together every day, is familiar with each other, and he knows what he likes to eat, what she is not good at doing. Personal interests, hobbies, specialties, lifestyle and other information are no longer secret. So mutual understanding, between each other is very easy to produce a good impression.
According to the familiar law, if your "rival" every day and your love object with an environment in the work, learning, it may be dangerous. Encounter such a situation, it is best to take as much time as possible to accompany the object in love around, and more to him (her) to talk to make the other more understanding of their own.
Want to get closer to the sweetheart, praise is also a good way. And not only praise, but also kept praise. In the human heart, want their own behavior can be recognized, praised, this is a "self-affirmative desire."
Therefore, the face of other people's praise, although sometimes know that curry favor, flattery, but my heart is still very happy. Moreover, for those who meet their "self-affirmation", we are easy to have a good impression on it. "Praise" This behavior, whether it is for the praise of people, or praise the people, only the benefits of no harm.
However, want to make their own praise effect, it is best not to just put people touted. Contact with a few times and then really published your praise, this is appropriate, decent approach. Just a meeting to praise the words, not only the effect is weak, they might be the other side that is "unreliable people." Therefore, for those who have just met, must not add praise.
If you have to express the meaning of praise on the day of your knowledge, you can simply express your compliments in the form of text messages and e-mails, respectively, either separately or separately. In addition, when we praise a person, the other side will often modestly deny.
For example, I said: "You are really insightful." The other said: "No no, I just guess ... ..." This time, I can come to a negative negation, said: "Imistible! Can not think of it. "This way is very effective. If the other side denies our praise, and we are not in a timely manner, then all the efforts will be in vain.
If you have a sweetheart may wish to follow the above steps in a step by step so that he (her) to understand their own minds, and like you, then really happy.
What should I do with my sweetheart? How to let each other also like their own? I want to teach you the first move is "frequent meet". If the sweetheart is a school student, you can find ways to blend into his (her) social circle; if the sweetheart is a colleague in the workplace, you have to adjust their time to work with each other, and strive to meet on the road. Anyway, it is more to meet.
"So simple?" Certainly someone will have such a question. But I can responsibly tell you that such a simple method is really very effective. People are more likely to have a good impression on people or things that have come into contact with many times, which is called "simple contact principle" in psychology. Moreover, just simply increase the number of contacts, it is possible to cultivate a good impression. So, if you have a sweetheart, as much as possible in front of him (her) appeared. In any case, "mixed face familiar" first.
If you like a person, want to win each other's goodwill, in addition to frequent meet, the best often appear in his (her) side. American psychologist Cohen has done an experiment, so that a man at the same time with the two women chat, but one of the women from the men only 50cm, while another woman from the men 2.4m. Psychologists want to study the relationship between distance and goodwill. The results found that men closer to their own women more than a good impression, the woman also had a good impression on the men.
Another psychologist in the United States has investigated the relationship between the relationship and distance of the apartment tenants. The result is that the closer the neighbors live, the better the relationship. Not only in the same floor there is such a phenomenon, even between the two floors, but also the nearest neighbor relationship is the best. It can be seen that people are close to their own people tend to have a good impression, psychology will be called this phenomenon "close to the factors."
Simply just look at the glances, distance away from some, you can enhance the goodwill between each other. If you can understand each other, the goodwill between each other will be further deepened. This is psychologically known as the "familiarity". For example, an office colleague, who is working together every day, is familiar with each other, and he knows what he likes to eat, what she is not good at doing. Personal interests, hobbies, specialties, lifestyle and other information are no longer secret. So mutual understanding, between each other is very easy to produce a good impression.
According to the familiar law, if your "rival" every day and your love object with an environment in the work, learning, it may be dangerous. Encounter such a situation, it is best to take as much time as possible to accompany the object in love around, and more to him (her) to talk to make the other more understanding of their own.
Want to get closer to the sweetheart, praise is also a good way. And not only praise, but also kept praise. In the human heart, want their own behavior can be recognized, praised, this is a "self-affirmative desire."
Therefore, the face of other people's praise, although sometimes know that curry favor, flattery, but my heart is still very happy. Moreover, for those who meet their "self-affirmation", we are easy to have a good impression on it. "Praise" This behavior, whether it is for the praise of people, or praise the people, only the benefits of no harm.
However, want to make their own praise effect, it is best not to just put people touted. Contact with a few times and then really published your praise, this is appropriate, decent approach. Just a meeting to praise the words, not only the effect is weak, they might be the other side that is "unreliable people." Therefore, for those who have just met, must not add praise.
If you have to express the meaning of praise on the day of your knowledge, you can simply express your compliments in the form of text messages and e-mails, respectively, either separately or separately. In addition, when we praise a person, the other side will often modestly deny.
If you have a sweetheart may wish to follow the above steps in a step by step so that he (her) to understand their own minds, and like you, then really happy.
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