We grow the soil, is the Confucian culture, in fact, so far, we are all Confucian rule. Confucianism is the soul of the Chinese civilization and the cornerstone of the Spring and Autumn period for the first division of Confucius. Later, in order to strengthen the centralization, from the Han Emperor began "exclusive Confucianism." Confucianism Dong Zhongshu and then according to the situation was adapted, since then, China began to thoroughly Confucianism. To the Song Dynasty, the economy began to decline, when the Confucian representatives - Cheng Zhu Neo-Confucianism began. Zhu is Zhu Xi, he proposed "save heaven, destroy the human desire", Confucianism brainwashing education. Husband for his wife, three from four virtues, "hungry death is small, loss of festivals big", these women's code of conduct are his proposed. As well as physical persecution, such as wrapped feet. Initially it is not aesthetic needs, but because the feet wear wooden shoes go unhappy, there is sound, to prevent elopement. To ask why women do not resist? Tang Dynasty woman's status is not low ah. There is a reason why the Song Dynasty's mode of production of heavy agriculture and light business, relying on the survival of land and family system, labor income depends on the father / husband's re-allocation of women's resistance to high costs.
Since then, the status of women began to gradually lower, strong and prosperous Tang, national prosperity, Confucianism in China also spread to South Korea, Japan, evolved in history. We can see that even in developed Japan and South Korea, now there are everywhere the shadow of male superiority.
Remember one night to see the Song Dynasty "column biography", a story some let me angry straight into the forehead, or see close the book eyes tearful. A widow was touched by a man, his own wrist cut off; for the dead man keep the festival, has cut the ears, nose Mingzhi; female dependents were chaos captive, for the Shouzhen killed his own sister-in-law and then commit suicide. One of the lively and splendid life, and we like the woman, with youth and life-long happiness in exchange for the name of the festival, in exchange for the gift of the court of the court. I bother.
Is there any improvement in the status of Chinese women today? Yes, there is absolutely, but still is the slightest strands of trace can not escape the millennium. From the beginning of the embryo, the baby will be selective abortion, even if born may also be their own family slaughtered; grow up, sexual intercourse girls, prostitution girls have occurred, the media exposure is only the tip of the iceberg. From the school to the workplace, we gradually adult, you and I often hear the words "female male and cultural differences", "girls should be safe and easy to work", are gender stereotypes.
One of the most sad that I was a public opinion that a woman over 25 on the devaluation, have to pay close attention to marriage so as to avoid becoming left women. However, you have not found that many women after childbirth, and gradually become gender-neutral neutral, and then hard to love love Jiao Qiao's "little daughter state." Because the 35-year-old woman's social orientation is mostly mothers, mothers do not need sexy do not need style, their beauty, their wonderful not be men expect. Chinese women's youth is particularly short-lived, while France has 60-year-old national treasure beauty.
Ancient "three from the female training", now add "from the public opinion", but not "listen to their own heart." Women grow up in too many moments hate their female identity, innate sensitivity, impulsive, credulous, compromise, weak, even kind. Many times to hide their ideas to please the community point of view, not a big step to enrich their own life, can not say hate to see women by male social harm.
This is a process of social construction, with the brand of Confucian men and women.
Then I have to ask, what is the value of a woman's decision? The media advocated the girls, frosty beauty; PU high, her husband derailed is also deserved (we all know that I am saying that the cult cancer it?), Elegant mature woman in the blind show was too young enough. Is not a woman who old ugly, it is worthless, unworthy of being loved Was materialized youth, in the Song Dynasty deja vu.
I am close to 30 when, after a break up before marriage. Now come back to think about it, then the pain is not lost because of love, more fear of 30 marriage: I am afraid I have no time to get married before the age of 30, I am afraid that in addition to the front of this person, no one will love I. How ridiculous, but I was really think so.
Now, as a 30 + woman of my own, do not please do not flatter, but also take age from ridicule I especially want to summarize through a word: Sophisticated is: experienced and experienced. In the description of women, this is a commendatory word, means mature and charming, style, will flirt.
How to understand That is, when the temperament and modified to enhance, much older than the side effects, so completely feel the ruthless time, but live more exciting. If so, what are you afraid of? Who in the closet did not have a lot of cheap tacky clothes, is the imprint of adolescence? Age and experience together long, you will have plenty of money can be dominated, life knowledge and interest, more and more decent conversation, that girl you afraid of what? I think from the heart, today, I was more than twenty Fanghua.
Feminism is not hostile to male power, but together to make the world better.
Powerful and never beautiful opposite, and it is a beautiful source.
Since then, the status of women began to gradually lower, strong and prosperous Tang, national prosperity, Confucianism in China also spread to South Korea, Japan, evolved in history. We can see that even in developed Japan and South Korea, now there are everywhere the shadow of male superiority.
Remember one night to see the Song Dynasty "column biography", a story some let me angry straight into the forehead, or see close the book eyes tearful. A widow was touched by a man, his own wrist cut off; for the dead man keep the festival, has cut the ears, nose Mingzhi; female dependents were chaos captive, for the Shouzhen killed his own sister-in-law and then commit suicide. One of the lively and splendid life, and we like the woman, with youth and life-long happiness in exchange for the name of the festival, in exchange for the gift of the court of the court. I bother.
Is there any improvement in the status of Chinese women today? Yes, there is absolutely, but still is the slightest strands of trace can not escape the millennium. From the beginning of the embryo, the baby will be selective abortion, even if born may also be their own family slaughtered; grow up, sexual intercourse girls, prostitution girls have occurred, the media exposure is only the tip of the iceberg. From the school to the workplace, we gradually adult, you and I often hear the words "female male and cultural differences", "girls should be safe and easy to work", are gender stereotypes.
One of the most sad that I was a public opinion that a woman over 25 on the devaluation, have to pay close attention to marriage so as to avoid becoming left women. However, you have not found that many women after childbirth, and gradually become gender-neutral neutral, and then hard to love love Jiao Qiao's "little daughter state." Because the 35-year-old woman's social orientation is mostly mothers, mothers do not need sexy do not need style, their beauty, their wonderful not be men expect. Chinese women's youth is particularly short-lived, while France has 60-year-old national treasure beauty.
Ancient "three from the female training", now add "from the public opinion", but not "listen to their own heart." Women grow up in too many moments hate their female identity, innate sensitivity, impulsive, credulous, compromise, weak, even kind. Many times to hide their ideas to please the community point of view, not a big step to enrich their own life, can not say hate to see women by male social harm.
This is a process of social construction, with the brand of Confucian men and women.
Then I have to ask, what is the value of a woman's decision? The media advocated the girls, frosty beauty; PU high, her husband derailed is also deserved (we all know that I am saying that the cult cancer it?), Elegant mature woman in the blind show was too young enough. Is not a woman who old ugly, it is worthless, unworthy of being loved Was materialized youth, in the Song Dynasty deja vu.
I am close to 30 when, after a break up before marriage. Now come back to think about it, then the pain is not lost because of love, more fear of 30 marriage: I am afraid I have no time to get married before the age of 30, I am afraid that in addition to the front of this person, no one will love I. How ridiculous, but I was really think so.
Now, as a 30 + woman of my own, do not please do not flatter, but also take age from ridicule I especially want to summarize through a word: Sophisticated is: experienced and experienced. In the description of women, this is a commendatory word, means mature and charming, style, will flirt.
Feminism is not hostile to male power, but together to make the world better.
Powerful and never beautiful opposite, and it is a beautiful source.
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