Yesterday evening just back to the dormitory, not the door to hear the roommate in the sigh. I remember that he had a date today, or a very sure date. Morning to go out, he also said that this time the sister, he wins the vote in the ah
I also told him to earn a good impression before I came out. The results of this man patted the chest, confidently said: "This woman 's mind, ah, you do not understand, ten nine will be late, go early and dry, I might as well at home to pick up their own decent.
Morning words still words still in the ear, how to night to a zombie like?
After listening to the roommate, I could not help laughing.
The original thing is this: this man chasing women for many years, dating countless, since that has long mastered the truth of a variety of dating. Therefore, he determined from his past experience - a woman dating, ten nine will be late. So this morning deliberately late half an hour, not knowing that he encountered the remaining one of the ten, the other that dating time, the general boys will early, in order not to let the other long wait, specifically as early as a quarter of an hour to watch Sincerity.
So, before and after the count down, the girl waited for him 45 minutes. The sweet atmosphere of two people dating is also greatly reduced. In the end, it can be said is gone. Really can not tell the embarrassment, embarrassment!
"The woman is always tired of dashing, late is almost normal. Who knows she is not only late, but as early as it ... ... sheep is not late, you say how to help?
"Ah you do it, but also remedy a hair ah!" I was right to refuse him.
The results ... ... he was talking about a woman in a night, the woman dating accustomed to the reasons for late inside and outside the analysis over and over again.
So?
"I want to know why she is going early? This is obviously not science!" He looked at me with a firm look.
Indeed, most women like to be late for dating, and he also says part of the reason.
02
Strictly speaking, a woman's late is not accidental, but a deep psychological mechanism at work. Although every time she is late she can always find a pile of seemingly reasonable "irresistible" factors.
So, today, Xiaobian with you into the science, deep to discuss what is behind the woman on the back of what psychological factors.
First, test: see how much patience you wait for her. From which to assess how deep feelings of her, how strong sense of demand. If you wait for the patience are not, they generally think you will not be patient with her later. This causal logic, as a boy you really understand?
Second, the attention: late and usually "finale" has some subtle commonplace. Women are more or less late in order to attract the attention of others to show their value.
Third, the relationship between positioning: you wait for her, or she waiting for you, often hinted at a certain psychological relationship. Let you wait for her, in fact, is that your position is lower than her, and for future exchanges to lay the psychological basis.
Fourth, the formation of value advantages: the longer you wait, often means that the more "valuable". This is the legend of the "hanging to sell". This is related to the social role of women. And dating as part of the pursuit of the process, but also a very important part of the female screening partner.
Because women in marriage after the burden of reproduction and fertility should be much higher than men. They are more inclined to find a reliable, can give a sense of security of men. So women's choice is often greater than the choice of men, and men want to get women's love, must be set by her heavy tests to get her approval.
So, in fact, girls are often late with a certain "strategic significance."
And like my roommate encountered the kind of girl, I guess should be more simple thinking little girl. This time the love field veteran can be considered smart anti-smart mistake, the rush, I suggest that if he is not serious, do not scourge the people of the children friends. Because the girl must be serious and intentions, and no city government.
03
After learning about the psychological motivations behind these behaviors, the roommate was suddenly excited about playing with chicken and blood: "So, I met a particularly good girl? What about those girls who love late?"
"Can only say that you did not pass the test of each other."
"I remember Xiao Ping, CICI, although in the early old late, but behind how not late, I think it should be just met the matter.
"In general, if you pass this stage of the test, with the depth of contacts, girls will slowly converge, after all, she did not want you to think she is a very 'for' the woman.
But this should be positioned and formed after the relationship between the two sides. This process is also a period of increasing intimacy and dependence. So the form of this period is very critical. "
"No wonder! The original was routinely" He thoughtfully. "How can i reverse the way?"
"First of all, you have a girlfriend."
"..."...
I also told him to earn a good impression before I came out. The results of this man patted the chest, confidently said: "This woman 's mind, ah, you do not understand, ten nine will be late, go early and dry, I might as well at home to pick up their own decent.
Morning words still words still in the ear, how to night to a zombie like?
After listening to the roommate, I could not help laughing.
The original thing is this: this man chasing women for many years, dating countless, since that has long mastered the truth of a variety of dating. Therefore, he determined from his past experience - a woman dating, ten nine will be late. So this morning deliberately late half an hour, not knowing that he encountered the remaining one of the ten, the other that dating time, the general boys will early, in order not to let the other long wait, specifically as early as a quarter of an hour to watch Sincerity.
So, before and after the count down, the girl waited for him 45 minutes. The sweet atmosphere of two people dating is also greatly reduced. In the end, it can be said is gone. Really can not tell the embarrassment, embarrassment!
"The woman is always tired of dashing, late is almost normal. Who knows she is not only late, but as early as it ... ... sheep is not late, you say how to help?
"Ah you do it, but also remedy a hair ah!" I was right to refuse him.
The results ... ... he was talking about a woman in a night, the woman dating accustomed to the reasons for late inside and outside the analysis over and over again.
So?
"I want to know why she is going early? This is obviously not science!" He looked at me with a firm look.
Indeed, most women like to be late for dating, and he also says part of the reason.
02
Strictly speaking, a woman's late is not accidental, but a deep psychological mechanism at work. Although every time she is late she can always find a pile of seemingly reasonable "irresistible" factors.
So, today, Xiaobian with you into the science, deep to discuss what is behind the woman on the back of what psychological factors.
First, test: see how much patience you wait for her. From which to assess how deep feelings of her, how strong sense of demand. If you wait for the patience are not, they generally think you will not be patient with her later. This causal logic, as a boy you really understand?
Third, the relationship between positioning: you wait for her, or she waiting for you, often hinted at a certain psychological relationship. Let you wait for her, in fact, is that your position is lower than her, and for future exchanges to lay the psychological basis.
Fourth, the formation of value advantages: the longer you wait, often means that the more "valuable". This is the legend of the "hanging to sell". This is related to the social role of women. And dating as part of the pursuit of the process, but also a very important part of the female screening partner.
Because women in marriage after the burden of reproduction and fertility should be much higher than men. They are more inclined to find a reliable, can give a sense of security of men. So women's choice is often greater than the choice of men, and men want to get women's love, must be set by her heavy tests to get her approval.
So, in fact, girls are often late with a certain "strategic significance."
And like my roommate encountered the kind of girl, I guess should be more simple thinking little girl. This time the love field veteran can be considered smart anti-smart mistake, the rush, I suggest that if he is not serious, do not scourge the people of the children friends. Because the girl must be serious and intentions, and no city government.
After learning about the psychological motivations behind these behaviors, the roommate was suddenly excited about playing with chicken and blood: "So, I met a particularly good girl? What about those girls who love late?"
"Can only say that you did not pass the test of each other."
"I remember Xiao Ping, CICI, although in the early old late, but behind how not late, I think it should be just met the matter.
"In general, if you pass this stage of the test, with the depth of contacts, girls will slowly converge, after all, she did not want you to think she is a very 'for' the woman.
But this should be positioned and formed after the relationship between the two sides. This process is also a period of increasing intimacy and dependence. So the form of this period is very critical. "
"No wonder! The original was routinely" He thoughtfully. "How can i reverse the way?"
"First of all, you have a girlfriend."
"..."...
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