Monday, January 30, 2017

Comfort woman's ingenious skills to take your heart's flap!

Often encountered trainees asked me, why I was so good she did not appreciate her, girls, bad mood, how do I want to comfort her.

Want to answer this question in order to understand, first of all necessary to understand this "good" in the end is what is concerned about or control. "" What to eat, "" Where will you go, "and the like the so-called problem, really is concerned about care or care?



First talk about what is not identified as her concern. Many people think that good is to send gifts to send things, pick-up, etc., but the relationship between the high scores or general feelings of the girls more than they will not touch, why now social software so much to know a man, Of things. Ask them to eat a lot of men. As for your comfort relationship, in fact, nothing.

Many boys, in the pursuit of girls in the process, are clearly aware of one thing, is to occupy her more private time, the more you have the impression you. So "why", "eat" and "where will you go," such as the so-called concern topic appeared, and this question really is concerned about care or care? In the girls view, more likely to like the boys themselves is a very boring person, can not find anything to talk about the conversation, can only rely on account-based Q & A as exchanges.

Even more frightening is that such problems are often thrown out, as if there is a fixed process, from the "start" to girls no longer return to the end. Do not have more than three times, do not expect girls will be willing to "chat" with you.

Of course, even if it is really concerned, but also in a reasonable emotional stage to be feasible. In the girls' awareness, only she needs good is good, only her favorite people to her well, she will remember in my heart. She is not interested in her good people, especially more than the level of concern for ordinary friends, but there will be no good results.

Girls say that like the phone, give her to buy an IPHONE; girls that no money to repay, to transfer 50,000 minutes. Well, this is not really a joke. But the wayward boys, after all, a small number of boys, the normal boys care is like this -
- girls said recently in the diet can only drink milk, on the back of a so bad for the body, you have to eat on time, or stomach pain, etc. a long list of preaching. Girls to tell you really annoying, on the back, ha ha, aunt came, I understand, a few days just fine.



Really big aunt temper irascible or small eyes can not afford to joke?

Really not! Like a girl you are not interested in finding the initiative to talk to you, why, did not eat like a boring greeting over, you finally found a topic to her, said recently want to buy new shoes so can only eat Instant noodles, but she told you to double-breaking shoes to eat on the stomach of the brain on the Tintin bad noodles are not worth it. Not to mention the value of this thing is not worth it, I told you that you can be cooked to the things I say irresponsible, is when I really do not know what the consequences of brain damage do?

So the boys just crossed strangers into ordinary friends stage, with a good friend or a more intimate relationship can say. Girls do not feel tired, but disgusted, the kind of "I am familiar with you, you will not control too wide," the idea, usually only let the girls choose to avoid all contacts, do not get themselves into trouble.

Of course, there are always some lucky boys, will encounter their favorite girls have their own good impression of the situation. Even so, the boring day after day dialogue, girls will also like that and a little expectation, exhausted. In the final analysis, there is such a dialogue, not because of concern, but you are too boring, smart as her, how could not see?



So to comfort, please carefully!

First of all, to express their interest in the degree of adjustment. The girl worried about sleep late but need to get up early that the body is too much attention to rest, that I will tell you to wake up not to let you late is concerned about; clockwork message girl a long time before replies that do not have time to eat in the busy, reply message to pay attention to She and sneeze, ouch good distressed drink hot water is too concerned about, and she is not too busy to eat, eat a lot of food, Send a box of medicine plus a sugar is concerned. In short, that more than do a little more.

Chat too much to say that will expose a sense of demand, you can simply do it.

Then, the frequency of this concern to control well, too little to no effect of boiling water frog, too many girls will be tired. The safest way of caring is to use her skillful methods to distract her from her agitated feelings only when she complains.

(Do not use the way to kneel licking Yeah, what to eat, send gifts, really useless! Do not paranoid any old joke can make her laugh, it is better to say that you met a similar thing, and then you How to resolve the wit, and finally make up a bad mood when the most suitable for the XX, then [XX is what not to ask me, to ask the girl's microblogging, friends circle more Kaopu her show things you say you need From the girls there to learn more about the girls show things, slowly know to understand, become with them with the topic, so you are afraid to come out with the girls dating topic], the next invitation is also the way to finalize, nor Wasted time with her Tucao not)

Want to rely on the way she was born to give birth to a good man you are a way, only the two sides have a good impression of each other's work. Or will only make the girl feel that you are a bad person or a good spare tire candidates. Want to break through this relationship, only when the topic from her and her everything into your all, it is possible to achieve.

Another girl if the work is not liking, any does not like to tell you, you say nothing will be in the past, I do not even think about eating. Such comfort and relationship simply does not make much sense, because Li Wangsanwu will say, in fact, you should tell your own personal experience at this time to tell her how you had come.

For example, the cause of the girl, how can you comfort this time, you can say that you were unemployed before things were bullied, life is very embarrassing, through the details such as eating time can only be convenient and so on, girls look at the screen sense of things , And details on something. At that time how do you step by step to find a better job than before the job. So you use your experience to tell her on the one hand you are a kind of person through a story telling her to understand you, on the one hand and told her that you have a common experience and experience, quickly narrowed the relationship. Gave himself a high-value display. This comfort and care methods to be effective.

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