Recently, a girl in the background consulting q: just graduated into a company practice, there are many things do not understand, fortunately met a high his last two male colleagues, everywhere to help and care for her, to own request not a impatient. Don't know what is his illusion or, for the people he doesn't seem to be so enthusiastic.
Sometimes, in the cafeteria to eat lunch, he will find her, sat down on the other side, and she ate and chatted. After work, two people together often went by bus to go home. Two people are always talking and laughing on the road. She always can't help but think: he is interested in her?
From the perspective of the description of the girl, the boy like her, if not, at least there is a favor. Does not rule out, of course, is just a kind of subjective description "excessive" mentality.
Why do you say that?
Because, as a recent graduate of the newbies, came to an unfamiliar environment, she subconsciously will certainly want to seek a shelter themselves can harbour, this is the instinct of a man.
As our ancestors see cave will is in a sense. This instinct might drive she showed a weak gesture, tell my man, "I am a person that needs to be protected girl", and this is just the protectiveness and man.
When a man to a woman showed a care behavior, the reason may have two: one is that I really like you, I want to be with you; Another just you seem to be very weak, and protective instincts stirred man, and love it doesn't matter.
I have a friend who have had similar experiences. But the two sides in the relationship but soon broke up, the reason is, the affection between each other are nothing more than an friends more than lover not full.
She said: the dream I had just rely on each other, actually not love. If can be confirmed earlier his feelings. If not sure I love do not love each other, better don't together, rather than a waste of time, cuts hurt yourself.
Is there any way that can determine whether or not they love each other? She said of course. When you fall in love with a person, you would be so...
I put her words adjusted, including three aspects:
1, when you love a person, your body will know;
TA, you will want to see you will miss TA, wish each minute and TA together, pay attention to TA. This is the feeling.
For example, A student called little A, she and little B and C in exchanges at the same time, small B sven, culture and many gold, small C blunt temper good Alsace. She felt both good, she felt confused, don't know how to choose.
This time, I will ask her, if small B, and you have a close physical contact, can you resist? She nodded. The change to come over, if small C, she nodded. She later confirmed their favorite is a small C.
So, don't love a person you love, your body know. If you are resisting each other, at least you emotionally haven't reached the step of "love".
2, when you love a person, you will be looking forward to;
When a person you like, you will not consciously notice this man. Such as TA have to come to work today, circle of friends is updated, whether also pay attention to you... Until you suddenly realized that you like, intentionally or not, always notice each other.
From now on, you start to look forward to. Look forward to each other through you, stop to talk to you; Look forward to each other about you eat together; Looking forward to the other party notice you change a new hairstyle, or a new tie...
This kind of expectation by inside and the hair of, you not only look forward to the other party notice yourself, you will look forward to you can walk together side by side with each other.
3, when you love a person, you have not give up;
When we face to leave, leave a familiar place or familiar people, heart is always there will be many.
People in the emotional aspects, too.
A friend of mine told me a story: in her college, she met in the school of a higher than her brother. Two people because the work is always between us, like-minded, later became very good friends.
Later, she found herself always inadvertently think of him, because feelings blank, just thought, did not pay too much attention. Brother told her, until one day, he left school to go to Shanghai for a period of time. She realised that she liked each other.
She described the feeling like crawling on the battlefield, suddenly hit by a grenade. Her efforts to control their emotions, to return to dormitory, buried in the quilt cry for a long time.
Due to the physical structure of men and women has obvious difference and psychological thought that love a person's performance will also vary, but are common on the above three aspects.
Modern man is always thinking about each other love myself or not, but few think you love each other, so choose a spouse standard becomes, who pay much more for me who I choose.
But that will only make themselves farther from love, farther from happiness...
Sometimes, in the cafeteria to eat lunch, he will find her, sat down on the other side, and she ate and chatted. After work, two people together often went by bus to go home. Two people are always talking and laughing on the road. She always can't help but think: he is interested in her?
From the perspective of the description of the girl, the boy like her, if not, at least there is a favor. Does not rule out, of course, is just a kind of subjective description "excessive" mentality.
Why do you say that?
Because, as a recent graduate of the newbies, came to an unfamiliar environment, she subconsciously will certainly want to seek a shelter themselves can harbour, this is the instinct of a man.
As our ancestors see cave will is in a sense. This instinct might drive she showed a weak gesture, tell my man, "I am a person that needs to be protected girl", and this is just the protectiveness and man.
When a man to a woman showed a care behavior, the reason may have two: one is that I really like you, I want to be with you; Another just you seem to be very weak, and protective instincts stirred man, and love it doesn't matter.
I have a friend who have had similar experiences. But the two sides in the relationship but soon broke up, the reason is, the affection between each other are nothing more than an friends more than lover not full.
She said: the dream I had just rely on each other, actually not love. If can be confirmed earlier his feelings. If not sure I love do not love each other, better don't together, rather than a waste of time, cuts hurt yourself.
I put her words adjusted, including three aspects:
1, when you love a person, your body will know;
TA, you will want to see you will miss TA, wish each minute and TA together, pay attention to TA. This is the feeling.
For example, A student called little A, she and little B and C in exchanges at the same time, small B sven, culture and many gold, small C blunt temper good Alsace. She felt both good, she felt confused, don't know how to choose.
This time, I will ask her, if small B, and you have a close physical contact, can you resist? She nodded. The change to come over, if small C, she nodded. She later confirmed their favorite is a small C.
So, don't love a person you love, your body know. If you are resisting each other, at least you emotionally haven't reached the step of "love".
2, when you love a person, you will be looking forward to;
When a person you like, you will not consciously notice this man. Such as TA have to come to work today, circle of friends is updated, whether also pay attention to you... Until you suddenly realized that you like, intentionally or not, always notice each other.
From now on, you start to look forward to. Look forward to each other through you, stop to talk to you; Look forward to each other about you eat together; Looking forward to the other party notice you change a new hairstyle, or a new tie...
This kind of expectation by inside and the hair of, you not only look forward to the other party notice yourself, you will look forward to you can walk together side by side with each other.
When we face to leave, leave a familiar place or familiar people, heart is always there will be many.
People in the emotional aspects, too.
A friend of mine told me a story: in her college, she met in the school of a higher than her brother. Two people because the work is always between us, like-minded, later became very good friends.
Later, she found herself always inadvertently think of him, because feelings blank, just thought, did not pay too much attention. Brother told her, until one day, he left school to go to Shanghai for a period of time. She realised that she liked each other.
She described the feeling like crawling on the battlefield, suddenly hit by a grenade. Her efforts to control their emotions, to return to dormitory, buried in the quilt cry for a long time.
Due to the physical structure of men and women has obvious difference and psychological thought that love a person's performance will also vary, but are common on the above three aspects.
Modern man is always thinking about each other love myself or not, but few think you love each other, so choose a spouse standard becomes, who pay much more for me who I choose.
But that will only make themselves farther from love, farther from happiness...
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