Sunday, January 22, 2017

You missed the chance to be with her to go to bed because you don't know the correct flirting

The first snow, today to Beijing the natural and pure and fresh air. I heard a couple downstairs shopping seem in dispute. Chills, the people got up early to day the busy work, no one to talk. So the brawl in couples, downstairs on the road to let a person particularly clear.

Beijing is probably can't get away with low temperature and let a person dare not take a deep breath of the fog haze, girls want to take a taxi to go home, don't want to silly wait at the station has been slow to the bus, while boys have to whisper softly to persuade car came after a while, and so on.

I look at the girl's facial expression and manner are not willing to full, looked at the boy's face has a slight remorse and hesitation, I think this scene is very dazzling, think of this man is not old me.


Think of a few days ago to have dinner with a girl, there is a tree video city, inside put a few dolls machine. There is a baby in front of the machine is a couple students, two people wearing Nike shoes, wearing a very doesn't figure, fat fat big loose school uniform, the girl took the boy to catch up the doll, laughing so happy, the boy's eyes are full of love, touch the membrane girl's hair, they touched the nose to each other.


Finally, the station of the couple quarrel broke out, the girl behind the boy's hand is oneself go, the boy tightly followed behind. Don't know if they will continue to the next stop, the bus didn't come, still can be in halfway stopped a taxi. In fact, I want to say the cold you really shouldn't have to save the expense of a taxi. You save is a taxi money but girls here nodes will produce a kind of depressive sense with you is very painful.

Also don't know the two people back home, are crowded together in the small room have a dinner the boy a tease, girl's smile is the SLATE clean and clamour and girls returned home tidy up thing to go.

This few days to see two pairs of lovers, as have our once shadow.

In such a cold winter, I can tell this girl must be spoiled by the parents, she seemed to say I really don't want to and you fall in love with the poor.

Look for this one small detail.



Around us there are in the girls to the mouth about all day, I want to find a car have a handsome boy. Let's think women love money. Girls smoke in see a handsome boy at the door when shampoo, from time to time to fix with the hand blown disorderly hair. Girls cheered, really is her favorite type also go home at night with you in the mouth of figure, the handsome boy is really good. Let's think girls like handsome boy.

What we think about now, that is handsome? What should we not handsome handsome? When the girl ask you, do you think you handsome, how do you answer?

There are many online about "what kind of boy the most handsome?" "What time is the most sexy boy?" This series of statistics.

Sing good boys the most handsome,
Can play basketball boys the most handsome,
Lighting up the moment the most sexy,
Learn good boy to the most handsome,
Boy will dance the most handsome,
Rich men the most handsome,

While holding the steering wheel back when reversing the sexiest,
Say "I'll just brush card,." Most sexy.
The sexiest hand pull pull tie,
Playing basketball sweating when most sexy.
Wall dong yourself the most sexy,

In fact these answer also is no problem, but want me to say, or a man love a woman with the most handsome the most sexy, after all he's most discerning person in the world. Of course girls ask what time do you handsome when you can say so. Think about whether the girl in the mind very comfortable, all kua herself and her together.

You may find the woman in the street like the man or the man who is together, not so handsome, not so beautiful. Possible it is better to you, but when a woman really like a man, will feel that the man can grow too good-looking.

May be you are not the one in the crowd will be compelling, but you really love her, pay attention to do one thing, when she was around attention. True his mama is too handsome.

But there is always a woman began to no longer pursue each other must be more handsome, be sure to attract the attention of many people in the crowd, even don't really care really were very good to her. Compared with these, they began to care more about the future you can give them what kind of life, with her about how to love.

Is not the woman reality, but the hard in the city, no love is soft. As if just starting station couple quarrel with each other.

When we leave the school, the woman in love is produced very big change.

 

When they don't mind you will find that the school to for both of them don't have much money, so the weekend rest at home together, only see a movie with a computer, steal to kiss you face each other, meet the ambiguous scenes in the movie, also join in for some men and women protagonist. After sweating man gentle careful for women to wear underwear from behind. Occasional much pocket money when they go out to eat meal together in love. That is pure campus love, we feel the love is still so miss.

Love, after graduation from the university will not change the problem, I asked some of the girls.

They told me

"Regardless of left the school, graduate to find a job that would soon. My love, really has changed, at the very least, can no longer accept the weekend can curl up in the family love. Arrange every weekend we go to play, he can with stay-at-home I first, go to see the scenery, I also didn't see the Beijing see enough after Beijing, it took me to see a bigger world, eating delicious. Of course, I want to rest more desultory married, but it is not so real, even though I always said my lifelong dream is to marry a rich man." This is a girl said to me words.

Love is love, money is money, both should not conflict. This is now most people really love values, so you might see too much, love and separate performance that kind of person.

Girls no matter how capable, oneself can make money, how don't need against the boys, also should be to find a, one thousand, one day, when you need to rely on him, he will support behind you. I think there is too many women heart the real thing. They are not stupid, but why some people can follow their own men were poor, you can quietly pay, this is their individual outlook on life is different.

Not the poor unworthy of love, but love is only love to the poor.

 

Rich love can have a bunch of decorations are ling lang see everywhere, let the love at the very least appearance look, look better. That what, you said that I now have no money at all. But you can give the girl a can see now, or are you doing in the future. Good, that why I say these today, I found my light said, this is no good. The surface looks ok to cool.

For example, I would say:

"I know there is a mysterious movie let too many people see crying and smiled."
Girl asked: "what name?"
"Do you love me in ten thousand."
Girl asked: "who's."
"You and me."

Girls ask you clothes look. What you said is not pretty, when you told me you loved me best. Etc. These routines are really just. (in love, we put the love into the tao and technique), I'll let you know what is the way, the way and method. Practice routines is art. Degree of oil, dead load?

Today's content is belong to the category of art. You have to understand what love is, what a woman needs love, together with the art of this works. Why don't you look at a variety of techniques, dazzle also feel interesting. But it's your turn to use, just think how it all wrong. Because you need to understand a woman's love values. Core no master, natural to you not good at all, but we said mutual combination of art, just to let you cling to live is not dry.

What we now know that women start to that, the rest is touched. Why often speak to contact too diligent too exposed demand feeling is wrong?
American psychologist Sharon. Mr. Mu summarized the occurrence regularity of love, people have rebellious attitude of love, for example, when people are threatened with get or lost, you will be more longing for each other, and do our best to protect the other party. Therefore, for a people, the more get, the more precious. For this, Socrates has a profound summary.
A woman asked Socrates: "how can I make a man feel my body more beautiful?" Socrates immediately replied: "first refused, and then meet him. So he will feel doubly happy." A simple word, Socrates says the between men and women about an interesting psychological phenomenon: occasionally refused to appear more attractive. Similar to the phenomenon and the "Pandora's effect.

 
In Greek mythology, Prometheus stealing fire in the sky to the earth, after breaking the god Zeus. Zeus to punish human, came up with a solution: he ordered the vulcan the was sent a beautiful girl, this girl has been given to confuse people's appearance and language skills. The girl of infinite charm was named Pandora. In ancient Greek, "pan" means everything, "DORA" is a gift, that is a gift every girl is a woman.
Zeus gave to Pandora a sealed box, and told her never to open. Pandora was married to the younger brother of Prometheus meters after Theseus, came to the earth. In the beginning, always remember Zeus told Pandora, don't open the box. But after a period of time, Pandora is more and more curious, want to know what is in the box. In strong out of curiosity, Pandora opened the box. Originally, hiding a large group of disasters in this box, all kinds of diseases and disasters occuring. Zeus with Pandora unable to suppress the human curiosity successfully punishment.


Pandora effect refers to stimulate the desire for banned, and the psychology of the Socrates explained ahead of the same phenomenon. Pandora effect in real life is universal. Often heard stories of people know, for example, every story come to an end, always in the most exciting place, these stories for his audience suspense, so that the audience in tune in next time.
Again, such as, each episode in the process of the television series is always at the most critical time slots, this approach can not only make advertising ratings increase, also can hang the audience appetite.
In life, people must learn to calmly face their own desires, such as with the opposite sex hair message, sent you blindly frequently. Others think you are a kind of behavior of low value. You say you how do you talk to me, you talk ah, and so on. Always let a person feel upset. You can keep some mystery.
In layman's terms, Pandora's effect can be interpreted as the more can't get more want; The more prohibited near field, the more feel the temptation; The more not clear thing, the more want to know. In relationships, the effect also is very common, relative to the access to and familiar with the people, for they do not know, difficult to get close to the opposite sex has more curiosity. Because are difficult to contact, close to trigger their infinite lenovo, more can promote and strengthen people eager to close to and understand the appeal, the psychological essence is the existence of curiosity and rebellious attitude.

So how do we applied the psychological effect of in love?

In general, if the other party showed less interested in myself. This time, want to let their own nervous, need is not active, but the distance. We called this distance - frozen. Sometimes a little refused, can let each other tight. Always obey will let each other do not understand to cherish.

 

Film from your passing all over the world let me the deepest memory segment, the men ate noodles call Chen at the end of the station, he said he doubted his wife cheating, because his wife accompanied him for seven consecutive days before surface will not complain, and now he is in front of the pack to go home, his wife didn't touch. At this time the man was refused, he produced the anxiety. In thinking about this matter itself is different from before. Instead, cherish each other more than before.

This fragment I always remember, I don't know if his wife's infidelity, but generally I think this relationship is going to insist on not bottom go to. Don't lack of in the world can accompany you to eat seven consecutive days the girls, maybe there are people willing to accompany you eat seven days, but also do not add meat?

From another perspective, the man you can't because she can accompany you to eat noodles or do you think she loves to eat noodles, has let her eat noodles. She is willing to accompany you to eat noodles, waiting for you, waiting for you in one day her add full meat noodles. So you can't control.

The hard in the city, is not equipped with soft feeling.
If someone with no accompany you insisted, still hope you can treasure.
Strong, all people are soft raw cocoon, especially women.

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